mera beta bahut sidha sada baccha h.use jo jaise bolte wo waisa krta h. School, tution anywhere. tution me to helpers ki role me use " cobbler " ka role diya.aaj ganesh chaturthi celebration me ganesha ka mouse mere beta ko bnaya.use kb motivate wala role ya powerful role ni deti ma'am.drti hun ma'am se kuch bolungi to wo mere beta ko preshan kregi wo mjhe bta ni payega.main kya krun.ek bar school me swimming costume ni tha locker me tha but school staff swimming class me le ni gyi.to mera beta ko kapde remove krk swimming karwaya.wo kuch bol ni paya.kya kre.kisi se kaise kuch bolun.

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Aapko agar lag raha hai aisa kuch to aap khul ke school me baat kariye..apni pareshani batayiye.. make them understand your concern points being a mother..aap khul ke chize nahi rakhoge school me ya kahin bhi social gathering me.. to aapka bacha aapko follow karega.. wo bhi chup chup rahega .. khul ke express nahi kar payega..akhir bache maa baap ko dekh ke sikhte hain..so, from my point of view  you need to talk to their teacher   about all your doubts and concern.

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You should also talk to the school authorities this kind of behaviour is ridiculous the school cooperates and if they don’t have any costume for the child or the child is not carrying a costume or anything they give back to the child they send them to the other class or computer room or something this is not an acceptable behaviour you have to teach your child to stand up for itself it’s the right age start teaching otherwise it’ll be a problem and tell your child to tell you each and everything open all the windows and doors for your child to share each and every single detail of the day with you

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It’s okay Maam I can understand your concern a lot of kids are like that I also have struggled the same thing but you have to keep teaching your child to stand up for yourself to teach your child to keep its voice loud and you should value and respect what he says even at home once you start taking the feelings of your child into consideration you will see the things are going to change right now maybe your child is doing to fit into the surroundings with other kids and other kids are clever to take an advantage to that so with regular counselling things will become little better over the period I’m still struggling with the same so I can totally understand your concern but as a mom you have to boost the feed of your child make your child more confident outspoken and teach your child to keep it  pint and to say yes or no if the child is not interested in doing something interested in doing something else other than what is offered