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Mom of a 7 yr 10 m old boy7 years ago
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I think Im possessive about my son ! I have a 6months baby ,started semisolids now . My mil comes for 10days in a month to stay with us and attracts my son . She will play with him ,carry him around if he cry but won’t give him to me to feed him . She will just make him fall asleep . If my son thrills to come near me on seeing her face changes ,I’m worried if she is creating gap btw us . I have to go back to my studies soon ,don’t know how to handle this . She also says let ur husband get addicted to ur son 🙄 She won’t even prep bf or anything though I’m sick She will jus sit and steel him from my hands . She was actually nice person before my delivery,after that everything changed . I wasn’t treated like a bf mother even .,not even food at time . I bottle feed and breastfeed my son after he is 3months Old . Wen he cries ,she says mix milk il play with him 😡 Shez just stealing my Son from me I don’t have prop play time too

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profile image of Dr.Rasika ThosarExpertDr.Rasika ThosarPaediatric Intensivist7 years ago

A. hi its just a matter of few years. obviously baby goes to a person who takes her care in your absence or pampers him more give some quality time on weekend, take her out,  tell stories. its ok.emotionally he will be always attached with you.

profile image of ruhinaruhinaMom of a 7 yr 9 m old boy7 years ago

A. think mother in law as a mother.. dont question like fool.its like a jokes. grand paa and grand mother is more excited then mother and father. they want to play our childhood. don't ask this type of question in online.

Author of questionMom of a 7 yr 10 m old boy7 years ago

A. Also if I wait to feed baby after sometime She wanna feed the left over milk from bottle I said il feed ,untill one year I won’t allow anyone. Am I overthinking this ? My parents play sometime with my kid and vl give me to carry but I never saw my mil doing so If we go out ,she wanna carrry him and hold him ,make him fall asleep

profile image of s madaans madaanMom of a 10 yr 3 m old girl7 years ago

A. It is actually a problem of most of the mother in laws that they want to steal your child from you because they think that you have stolen you dare get from them but I do not understand that place of a wife in place of a mother are two different things but is still I will suggest you that you should be strong enough and district enough that you should not give your crying baby to your mother in law at any cost and if you ask you for should you just say that you are the mother and you know your baby better

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