#asktheexpert My Son is 10 months old. He is banging his head to doors/walls/sofa ..Is this normal around this age? please advise

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It can be concerning when a baby bangs their head, but head-banging is actually fairly common in babies and toddlers, particularly around the age of 10 to 18 months. Many babies engage in this behavior for a variety of reasons, and it can be considered normal. Here are some possible reasons why your 10-month-old might be banging his head:

### 1. **Self-soothing**: 
Some babies bang their heads to comfort themselves, especially when they are tired or trying to fall asleep. The rhythmic motion can be soothing for them.

### 2. **Seeking Attention**:
Babies sometimes engage in head-banging to get a reaction from their parents or caregivers. If they realize that this behavior draws attention, they might continue doing it.

### 3. **Expressing Frustration or Anger**:
Babies may use head-banging as a way to express frustration or anger, especially if they are unable to communicate their feelings with words. This is more common during tantrums or when they are upset.

### 4. **Exploring Sensory Feedback**:
Some babies are exploring the sensation of different textures or the sound of banging against various surfaces. It can also be a form of self-stimulation as they are learning about their bodies and surroundings.

### 5. **Pain Relief**:
In rare cases, babies may bang their heads if they are in pain, like teething or an ear infection, as a way to distract themselves from the discomfort.

### What You Can Do:
- **Provide a Safe Environment**: Make sure the areas where your baby is most likely to bang their head are as safe as possible (soft surfaces, padding, etc.).
- **Offer Comfort**: If you notice your baby head-banging when they are upset, offer comfort through touch, words, or distraction to help them express their feelings in a safer way.
- **Stay Calm**: If head-banging is for attention, try not to react too strongly, as this might reinforce the behavior.
- **Ensure a Routine**: Regular sleep and feeding schedules can reduce head-banging linked to tiredness or hunger.

### When to See a Doctor:
- If your child seems to be injuring themselves.
- If the behavior persists and worsens as your baby grows older.
- If you notice developmental delays or other concerning behaviors like a lack of social interaction.

Head-banging usually fades on its own by the time your child reaches 2-3 years old. However, if you’re concerned, it’s always a good idea to discuss it with your pediatrician for further guidance.