as a parent m having lots of difference between my two child one is 14 years nd one is 11 month what should be taken care

A. That’s Actually a very big age difference that your kids have so your 14 year old child must be quite independent and sensible I think your 14 year old child would be able to support you in a better manner as of now since the younger one is too small so what kind of balance are you talking about can you be please more specific about that