Discussion about Pregnancy-A Life Changing Event

k priya singh Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

In reply to Swarnima Asthana

Two pink lines appeared in the pregnancy test kit and it all get started, Mother Hood was not developed, but an exuberant feeling was developed. Nine months, a big time but flies like an arrow, few days were so tough, big belly, pigmented body, inflated face, have not seen my feet for almost 3 odd months😜walking like a king just because it was not possible to walk with joint thigh 🙂Office , work pressure, from Medium to large, extra-large dresses, no makeup days ,maternity photo shoot, trying hard to get good sleep, yuk that bad nausea , and apart from all this a movement of a child who was inside and was growing and yes I was so pregnant 🥰

It will be a normal delivery with that before unbearable labor pain or will be a C-sec with an unbearable pain afterwards, so many thoughts, lots of phone calls, videos articles just to know what it looks like and how this all will happen, but trust me this feeling is different and can’t describe in words.

And finally saanvika is here, a little bundle of cuteness, innocent face, big eyes which always gaze.

It all looks so beautiful, photos, congratulations calls, sweets, happiness on faces, but what about the mother and motherhood, she is in pain, that surgery pain, straight body, no pillow, no movement, IV cannula, BP Heartbeat monitoring, no food, and most important she can’t even hold her baby like she wants to and even can’t see her face because she is struggling with her own body, and by evening, she needs to feed her baby.

Pregnancy, delivery, feeding everything is so natural, but for the one who deals with it, it is tough, every day of pregnancy was hard, delivery was unyielding and feeding , tough task it was.

From hospital to home, from maternity gowns to pyjamas and tshirts, but life has taken a 360 degree turn. Heavy breast, leakage, pain in stiches, bleeding ,body ache, long sitting feeding sessions a boring yet most important part, issues while walking and every movement, and unwanted issues like UTI,Cough cold fever pain during urine, taking fluids, understanding that what mother eats, the health of child depends on it, tired body which needs rest but sleepless nights, a crying baby and even you don’t know the reason, a full time job for which no any knowledge and without any prior experience and yes this is what motherhood is.🙏🏻

No matter a mother is working or not, she is breast feeding her child or giving formula milk, taking care by herself or has a nanny, she is worth for what she is, she should be praised and appreciated for what all she did and will be doing for rest of her life, the bond which she has with her child is irreplaceable and beyond words.

swarnima
A new mommy 🤗
#motherhood #motherly #parenting

hi swarnima...so beautifully written..honest description..liked the story from top to bottom

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Community User 6 years ago

Our life will be changed and become wonderful and happy life.

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Priya Mom of a 8 yr 5 m old girl 6 years ago

Nothing less than a roller coaster ride for sure. Motherhood developed a new level of thoughtfulness right from the moment i heard the news. It was a perfect mixture of pure bliss and lots of apprehensions in terms of what, when and how do i take care of this new life within.

The word \"\'Pregnant\"\' itself a heaven word for all the parent. Yes, i still remember the vibration of my heartbeat wen we were looking the pink line. Wow it was amazing second!!! I was a girl who loves my profession (Research) in my life endlessly...I never even got compromise my job for anything else. Even my family stood second wen compare to my job. During vacation i love to move to my lab to carry out my research instead of going to home...But my family too gave me a very big support by understanding my feelings n passion. Once I got married, I started working as Assistant Professor in an institution. After a year of marriage i got pregnant. As everyone i too decided to go for t job and to apply leave after the 7 or 8th month. But there comes a twist in my life. To decide whether child or job. During second month i had a bleeding. Since iam a chemist, Doctor strictly advised me to take rest completely by not going to lab. Tat was a day i was totally upset. As i was in an academic Field in private institute, they won\'t leave us to resign in the middle of semester (not blaming t institute just sharing my experience). I approached anyway by saying tat I\'ll finish of t portions for my students n resign during semester exams..But I got a shocking news from my management tat to resign in the starting of semester itself in a couple of days. Later i came out of t room n bust into tears, then suddenly i made a call to my dad. He told a few words...* So long u were teaching many people but after few more months yu r gonna learn more different things in life through ur child. U may get job anytime, even better than this position after some years but Getting a child is a very big boon in this world. So wipe up ur tears go proudly n accept ur resignation he told* my hubby too supported a lot...then i did the same... I didn\'t get compromised my passion for anything else but on tat day i compromised my passion for my child. Yes, now my son is 4months old, iam learning different things from him in my life as a motherhood!. He is making me a good researcher than i did before!!!. Till now i didnt get any ideas about my future regarding to get back to my job or not, orelse any better positions. But hope tat everything will b good and Rite now he is my world to me. Love my son SRISAN. God\'s Gift.

Sanuja Mom of a 6 yr 11 m old boy 6 years ago

The word "'Pregnant"' itself a heaven word for all the parent. Yes, i still remember the vibration of my heartbeat wen we were looking the pink line. Wow it was amazing second!!!
I was a girl who loves my profession (Research) in my life endlessly...I never even got compromise my job for anything else. Even my family stood second wen compare to my job. During vacation i love to move to my lab to carry out my research instead of going to home...But my family too gave me a very big support by understanding my feelings n passion.
Once I got married, I started working as Assistant Professor in an institution. After a year of marriage i got pregnant. As everyone i too decided to go for t job and to apply leave after the 7 or 8th month. But there comes a twist in my life. To decide whether child or job.
During second month i had a bleeding. Since iam a chemist, Doctor strictly advised me to take rest completely by not going to lab.
Tat was a day i was totally upset. As i was in an academic Field in private institute, they won't leave us to resign in the middle of semester (not blaming t institute just sharing my experience). I approached anyway by saying tat I'll finish of t portions for my students n resign during semester exams..But I got a shocking news from my management tat to resign in the starting of semester itself in a couple of days. Later i came out of t room n bust into tears, then suddenly i made a call to my dad. He told a few words...* So long u were teaching many people but after few more months yu r gonna learn more different things in life through ur child. U may get job anytime, even better than this position after some years but Getting a child is a very big boon in this world. So wipe up ur tears go proudly n accept ur resignation he told* my hubby too supported a lot...then i did the same... I didn't get compromised my passion for anything else but on tat day i compromised my passion for my child.
Yes, now my son is 4months old, iam learning different things from him in my life as a motherhood!. He is making me a good researcher than i did before!!!. Till now i didnt get any ideas about my future regarding to get back to my job or not, orelse any better positions. But hope tat everything will b good and Rite now he is my world to me. Love my son SRISAN. God's Gift.

Dr Poonam P Mom of a 7 yr old girl 6 years ago

Yes after 12 years of marriage and few years of TTC , the golden day arrived when I found out about my pregnancy . Exactly one year back my bhcg showed positive value first time it doubled . Yes I had morning sickness but I never complained. My gall bladder troubled me from my second trimester for which i had to be hospitalised but my baby kicking made me stronger day by day. My baby came early i was in my 34 th week. Yes being pregnant itself is a roller coaster ride . I have heard females complaining but my pregnancy was amazing from conceiving till my delivery ( c- section) I have had some amazing memories . Yes life has changed I am a dentist by profession from being a full time workaholic I have become a full time mammaholic and I LOVE EVERY MOMENT of this .

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Supriya Pardeshi Mom of 4 children 6 years ago

Being pregnant was a beautiful journey in which I enjoyed every bit of it....Being a Yoga instructor physical strength and flexibility was gained which made the whole thing more simpler...Could get connect with the baby and was experiencing positive wibes within which didn't trouble with any nausea,vomiting or bed ridden....Finally reached the destination by normal delivery on 14th April 19 with a beautiful angel Sanskriti...

Aarti Sandeep Modage Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

hi meri first time pergnent thi vo baby tube me hi tha,so mera tube hi nikala hai.aur doctor bole 50-50chance hai karke bole the pergnent hone k liye.phir mere husband aur mai soche nahi the itana jaldi baby hoga karke. lekin ye baby hone k bad hamari zindagi badly gayi hai.hum log bhout khush hain. ye baby 6th April ko hua hai.tab festival tha Hindu logon ka new year.hamari zindagi mein new member aake. new Khushi laya

Neha Roongta Mom of a 6 yr 8 m old boy 6 years ago

Being a mother,no doubt is d most beautiful fylin Eva...U eagerly wait for d moment,ur baby to smile, looking into his eyes,talkin, seeing him making different faces..Infact,fall in love with everything,he does...but at d same time, it's a tiring job too..u have no time fr urself...u jss remain to stay a mother...no wife,no daughter,not even u, urself....Stil I love my new job ND m living it happily..Proud to be a mother of d most amazing child....!!

Meera Mom of 15 children 6 years ago

I am a mom of 2 month old angel.
It took me weeks and months to accept that I conceived as I am differently abled.I am born with spina bifida and was so concerned about my baby's heath.I would not sleep before the day of scanning. With all concerns, she was born healthy. I saw her after 6 hours as I had general anasthesia for c section and the baby was in NICU. I saw two tiny feet and couldnt believe she is born normal.

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Community User 6 years ago

love you my baby so cute and proud of you

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