Discussion about Is your daughter fair?? Does it really matter!!

Heena Khan Mom of 3 children 7 years ago

In reply to pooja

when my daughter was born no one came from my in laws (except my husband) in hospital to see my Mee and my daughter. after 2 months my father in law died, then I went to my in laws home with my daughter, no one showed any interest in new born baby. my sister in law taunts Kali(black). I was not hurted because she called her black I got hurted because none of them had feeling for the new born baby. the colour of baby would never decide how much I love her. and her fate wouldn't be decided on her colour. the people who cry to get white complexion and those who thinks white skin is beautiful they all belongs to a lower mentality. if you are not fair so it doesn't mean you not beautiful and if you can't speak English language so it doesn't mean you have lack of knowledge.

She is so beautiful and lucky to have brave mommy like you ...

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Shailaja Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

I don't have a daughter but to me color dosen't matter. All I want is a healthy baby and healthy growth,give them good education and make them independent and strong.Beauty is always skin deep and there is no end as long as we compare.I was brought up with the same values by my parents.

Reshma Sharma Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

In reply to pooja

when my daughter was born no one came from my in laws (except my husband) in hospital to see my Mee and my daughter. after 2 months my father in law died, then I went to my in laws home with my daughter, no one showed any interest in new born baby. my sister in law taunts Kali(black). I was not hurted because she called her black I got hurted because none of them had feeling for the new born baby. the colour of baby would never decide how much I love her. and her fate wouldn't be decided on her colour. the people who cry to get white complexion and those who thinks white skin is beautiful they all belongs to a lower mentality. if you are not fair so it doesn't mean you not beautiful and if you can't speak English language so it doesn't mean you have lack of knowledge.

your little one is beautiful..❣❣

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Neeta Mungekar Mom of 3 children 7 years ago

i think her inner beauty is important.her heart should be pure

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Reshma Sharma Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

In reply to Balram batra

me smjhta hu ki baby ka fair hona aj na sahi pr future me mayne rakhta hy...hm jnm dete hi unke liye sapne dekhna shuru kr dete hy...to un sapno ko poora krne me fairness basic needs ki tarah hy...sath hi hme unke ache behave ka bhi dhyan rakhna hota hy.

aapko koi sapna pura karne ke liye fair hona chaiye..agreed..but fairness apke complexion mein nai apke niyat mein hona jaruri hai..

shweta maganhalli Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

In the beginning it may matter to most of the parents and outside but once a kid starts exploring it's talents in one or the other field and start winning the hearts of people,who cares whose look and colour??everything important is it's talent,its attitude and it's beautiful heart that can win the whole world.

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Sharon Felix Mom of a 10 yr 6 m old girl 7 years ago

Colour and beauty is only skin deep. Below the epidermis we are all the same colour. A girl's true beauty is seen in her strength in the face of struggles!