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Challenges in Raising a Child

nutan mahadik Guardian of a 5 yr 7 m old girl 5 years ago
In reply to suvita Shukla
1.Raising a good human being is very difficult in today's world as compare to before...I'm in joint family still raising my child alone ...because now days every one is busy in mobiles and tv...noone has more than 5 minutes to give... you can find many who can spoil you child none who can teach good deeds because it's mom's work...
2.Now days competition is so tough than before so you had to enange in sensory activity...crafting activity... language activity...so many activities...with your child that's the demand of society...
madam take it easy.
you are so much ambitious, thats why you feel like this.
you consider outside world as only a competiter for your child.
let child enjoy his/her days, everything will be fine.
Lakshmi priya Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
ya difficult only not only in nuclear family in joint family also they facing the more difficult in our region especially if the elder ones are taking care but they tell us more info and also telling something to all things we do, so can't do any different thing and they ll scream us for doing differently but atlast after nap of the baby all the problems scattered and while cing the smile of the baby things are easy
suvita Shukla Mom of 3 children 5 years ago
1.Raising a good human being is very difficult in today's world as compare to before...I'm in joint family still raising my child alone ...because now days every one is busy in mobiles and tv...noone has more than 5 minutes to give... you can find many who can spoil you child none who can teach good deeds because it's mom's work...
2.Now days competition is so tough than before so you had to enange in sensory activity...crafting activity... language activity...so many activities...with your child that's the demand of society...
Prerna Mom of a 12 yr 7 m old girl 5 years ago
Yes, I believe raising a child now is more challenging than it was before.

1. Earlier the life was simple -kids going to school, playing outdoor games, don’t have many shows to be seen however now the children have to develop all-round – they have school, online classes, extracurricular like swimming, dance, skating, karate and what not.

2. Behaviour issues are more now in children as they have a lot of choices be it in food items, games, activities, clothes, TV shows, gadgets, going to the mall, shopping, vacations etc.

3. Earlier the focus use to be of eating right (homemade food) and being healthy (physical exercise, outdoor play) which lack these days as children have a lot of options and are keener on having junk food and staying indoor (be it educational classes wise or watching any shows).

4. Earlier the career choices they have were limited, but now there are so many choices of profession and competition which gives parents as well as children immense pressure.

5. Earlier the world was a better place to live – be it security point of view, pollution, diseases or crime rate but now you cannot even think of leaving child even at a playground without keeping a track or unattended.

6. Gadgets – earlier, the devices were limited, and their use was limited, which use to encourage children to explore things on their own. Still, now the gadgets and its features are so many that children are either busy in playing with them, watching series, chatting, etc. that they hardly get time to explore new things.

7. Earlier people use to stay in joint families and to raise kids was much more comfortable, but now since people are waiting more in a nuclear family, they have to make sure that child is getting enough attention which is required.

8. Peer Pressure - It has been widely observed that in current times parents unknowingly put their child under alot of pressure to excel in all walks of lives like - Studies, sports, fine arts, music and dance to name a few.

Although raising a child seems more challenging but it comes with fair share of new opportunities for kids and parents alike.
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Varalakshmi yadav Mom of 3 children 5 years ago
yes it is very difficult because of nuclear family
Varalakshmi yadav Mom of 3 children 5 years ago
yes it is very difficult because of nuclear family
Heena Bhatia Raval Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
I feel raising a child in either today’s world or 20-30 years before was & is challenging. Infact nowadays we are blessed with having so many things regarding a child which was not available 20-30 years ago. It’s the most beautiful feeling anyone haves to raise a child even then & now.
Vin Father of a 5 yr 9 m old girl 5 years ago
Absolutely Yes!! Basically just our mindset...people start comparing since a baby arrives into this amaze world ha ha v also gradually adopt that pressure to b an ideal mum..poor child...just puppet in mum's hands...God saves

...Anyhow hv to survive in this competitive world..so yes ..Every moment is a challenge since a new mum born with a newborn... Everything is new to both..
Monika khambra Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
Nuclear family so have to do everything by yourself
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Jyothi Mom of 3 children 5 years ago
yes
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