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Challenges Faced in Raising a Child

Raising a child in today’s world is becoming challenging & Elders’ advice plays a major role. Share an incident when you learned about Parenting from your elders and it turned out to be very effective tip !

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Pallavi Gupta Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

Hi all parents
I m a mom of two lovely kids, one 4 years old daughter and a 7 mnths old boy. The timings of both the kids to play, to eat and to sleep is different so many a times i lose my patience and scold and hit my daughter but after doing that I really feel very bad for my behavior towards her. The recent visit of my mother made me realize that they are really small to understand and only Gud behavior and patience can make the life easier for all of us.
Really friends never hit them what they really need and understand is love love and love...

Pooja Mom of a 7 yr 3 m old boy 6 years ago

Post delivery I was under lot of stress about responsibilities ...duties..n pressure of being good mom to my son...because of these stress...I used get frustrated..n get easily angry on small small things...all these made me cry ...I cannot connect with my son because of stress n all ....then my mom made me understood...that being a mom is definitely not easy ..but u can easily get over all this....only when u enjoy parenthood ..she said ofcourse responsibilities and duties come when u are mom... suddenly people make u feel that u are big enough to take all the responsibilities because u r a mom now...but u can overcome all this only when u enjoy being mother ..play ..talk ..sing with it child .... even though they don't understand anything....but they will understand that u r trying to make them happy n they will make u happy with their smile ..n indeed this tip had helped me a lot...n I am thankful to my mom

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meetu Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

It was just 1.5 years to our marriage when we got to know that our little one is going to come soon. Living in a nuclear family, me and my husband, both were baffled with this one question- Will we be able to take care of our baby? But i feel, from day one, when she was born, she has taught us many a things. Its through your own personal experiences with the baby, not to forget, mother's instincts, plus the advice from our parents, little things that needs to be taken care of, which has improved lot many things for us. Who knew that- one should protect the new born from first winters and first summers, or, basic home remedies for any issue with the baby? Thanks ma, pa and mumma. 😍

surupa Mom of a 7 yr 10 m old boy 6 years ago

My son is turning One next month and by now I am able to find out the difficulties I face. I need to take care of him all alone and balancing house work with him is very challenging. I get too annoyed sometimes but end of the day it’s my baby. I make sure he gets enough food intakes and I never show him any gadgets. Parenting is interesting but challenging as Well. Let’s see as days move with my baby the happiness going to alarm. The feel of mother is something everyone needs to face in our lives.

sam Mom of a 7 yr 3 m old girl 6 years ago

It is really a tough job to raise a baby into a beautiful human. It takes time and effort. I am a mother of 4 month old and sometimes do struggle with my babies sleeping pattern, midnight feeds etc. Growing up a baby makes my life busy and tiring. But just that one smile, that loving look, and those tantrum to be with me makes every hard work fruitful. It makes the sacrifices and pain I beared worth. It is divine to carry a life in our womb and it is godly to bring a good human to the humanity. And I am thankful to God for choosing me for this priceless job. I love my baby and I feel I am blessed to have her in my life.

Anupama Mom of 3 children 6 years ago

Raising a child isn’t always a walk in the park. Striking the balance between knowing when to clean and discipline and knowing when to let things go and just enjoy life has been a surprisingly hard and ongoing battle for me. My instinct is to let things go, to hold my daughter close, to play with her. But then the house gets messy, and I get frustrated. Walking that tightrope of balance is an everyday struggle that never seems to have any real answers. I basically feel like I’m just winging it everyday. Some days I get it right. Some days I get it wrong. So many days I just don’t even get it at all.My total lack of patience and complete selfishness. It’s so hard for me to remember, for some reason, that my life is not all about me. When you have child, sometimes the simplest things, like just eating breakfast, don’t happen the way you expect them to. This is time I realise how difficult is to raise a child. Raising child is a big responsibility, and as our parents do this task I also wants to do as them. With elders in house the are like GPS we can follow the correct path only.

zareen Mom of a 4 yr 9 m old 6 years ago

Meri beti bahot khubsrat hai har maa baap ko pyare hote hai but i hope ki sabko meri beti pyari lagegi

Bhav Jain Mom of a 12 yr old boy 6 years ago

I ve 2 kids... one s 5yrs old n other s 1yr old... wwn I gave birth to my elder son he was in very critical stage n was having 0% chance to survive... mine was also cesarian... he was admitted in old airport road(bangalore) cloud nine hospital for 28days...n I also had to suffer n go there from nagarpete till there in the morning n return in the evening... we both mother n son faced so many difficulties at that time but thanx to that hospital n special thanks to Dr. Arvind shenoy n also god.. they gave my son back and now we are so happy🙂

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Insha Nawfal Mom of 4 children 6 years ago

hello! Good Morning!
There are several challenges faced while raising a child such as managing household chores and office works. Since am a civil engineer, I had to visit the sites often and therefore I had troubles in taking care of my tiny tot but I managed to opt a site which is near to my home and made sure about the availability of my mother as well as my hubby's mother for my little one. I haven't worked for the first 3 months of my baby. After that I rejoined and now my baby is 6 months. I always keep pampering my baby whenever I'm able to and his smile pleases me and release the pressure in built in me. Another challenge is that my husband is working abroad and he haven't seen the baby until now . My baby should get his care too. We have to planned to move with him as soon as possible.

Community User 6 years ago

Mamma of a 6 months old Baby Girl... Hav faced a lot of challenges wen my baby wasn’t having enough of weight gain... where ppl pointed out my mistakes lik I don’t take care of her properly....where just my parents supported n helped me out...My mom n dad had said me that u learn from mistakes so don’t worry u will come up as a super mommy....Now I have made those ppl who hurted me say that I’m a Supermom....🙂

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