Discussion about Challenges Faced in Raising a Child

Beign a mother itself is a very challenging role n as the baby or kids grows it's even more.Raising my child as a Single mom is really challenging though I forget all the hurdles just by Kids cute smile.My son has seen me beign abused n me in rough conditions..I tried to avoid conflicts in front of my child but was unable to at one time.This used to depress me much more than beign humiliated.But Siddhan(my son) is so very understanding right from a very tender age of 2.After getting separated he was so supportive,never ever asks about his father,I too doesn't raise about the topic of my past before him.By my bad experiences I always keep telling Sid to respect n care women or girls everywhere.He follows it too.He is the one who made me strong.He inspires me a lot.I was never appreciated as much as by Siddhan.I try to give him the best in everything n make sure that he never gets the feeling of a fatherless child..

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sushma Mom of 4 children 6 years ago

In reply to Nalina PH

Hi everyone, I am a mother of 13 months old baby. he is my first best lovely kid. I didn't get much family support to take care of my kid as most of them get because of their work. From 4th month I started to take care of my kid alone.

Most biggest challenge I faced was less breast milk along with this my kid born as a under weight kid. I tried all the ways to increase breast milk including pumping in the midnight, literally I wanted to feed my baby because I know how precious breast milk is for a kid. God grace to some extent it increased, still not completely.

And Being a first-time mother, I felt bit difficult to manage house hold chores and taking care of my kid. but my husband tried his level best to help me even though he had lot of office work.

3rd challenge is, my LO always wanted new things and new activities. or else he used to cry so much. this challenging is like challenge with fun :-)

"whatever the difficulties or challenges, when I look at my kid, he smiles at me. his million dollar smile brings back my life. my eyes fills with tears of joy...

Thanks alot to my parents for their good suggestion and my hubby's help and God for blessing a wonderful kid

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Pallavi Raut Mom of a 7 yr 2 m old boy 6 years ago

My baby is 3 months old now..since i gave birth to him my life has totally changed.i didnt have anyone to take care of me after delivery.thanx to my hubby who supported me in all ups n downs along wid his ofc chaos..bringing up baby with d pain u are going through in earlier period is not easy..sleepless nights,household works,be available for baby all d time was all very hard to manage..but now m used to it..n doing all the things happyly..as my baby is my heart..

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Pallavi Raut Mom of a 7 yr 2 m old boy 6 years ago

In reply to Mary

Raising a child is not a easy task. Challanges and as well as happiness is there in this jouney. we should be strong emotionally and financially.

absolutely..dats d only way we have😊

Nalina PH Mom of 3 children 6 years ago

Hi everyone, I am a mother of 13 months old baby. he is my first best lovely kid. I didn't get much family support to take care of my kid as most of them get because of their work. From 4th month I started to take care of my kid alone.

Most biggest challenge I faced was less breast milk along with this my kid born as a under weight kid. I tried all the ways to increase breast milk including pumping in the midnight, literally I wanted to feed my baby because I know how precious breast milk is for a kid. God grace to some extent it increased, still not completely.

And Being a first-time mother, I felt bit difficult to manage house hold chores and taking care of my kid. but my husband tried his level best to help me even though he had lot of office work.

3rd challenge is, my LO always wanted new things and new activities. or else he used to cry so much. this challenging is like challenge with fun :-)

"whatever the difficulties or challenges, when I look at my kid, he smiles at me. his million dollar smile brings back my life. my eyes fills with tears of joy...

Thanks alot to my parents for their good suggestion and my hubby's help and God for blessing a wonderful kid

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sindhu Mom of 4 children 6 years ago

In reply to Geetha

Being a mother of twin boys... have lot of challenges and more of learnings in 2 years of journey with my loving kids. Of many challenges faced right from their birth.... the challenges in 2+ years of their growth can be divided into 3 types for me.... Saviour... Career...Moulder...
First saviour challenge... had life and death situation... was in ICU ,away from kids for 13 days immediately after delivery... thanks to my husband, mother, aunts & sister in law for the support in taking care of me and my kids in this challenge.... was out of danger.. special thanks to doctors too...."Survival challenge"
Second, career challenge... was a software employee... rejoined immediately after maternity leave... thanks to my mother for taking caring of kids very well for about 10 months untiringly with two twin kids... special thanks to care taker too who looked after kids very safely and warmly... but later had to give up my job because my younger kid was repeatedly getting sick with cough and Asthma and got hospitalized thrice...I faced lots of challenges with working and attending such a small kid in hospital... decided to give up work and not leaving them behind on ones responsibility for sake of my career... thanks to family for supporting the decision..."tough challenge"
Third, and now the most loving challenge of teaching and bringing them up and making them know the world... bringing love among two kids irrespective of uncountable fights they have from small to big things... thanks for first cry for parenting & shopping support in my third challenge.... Special thanks to intellikit too......"loving challenge ".

be strong as u r always.. ur kids will be ur strength

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jayanthi Mom of a 8 yr 4 m old girl 6 years ago

hi guys I am having 17months old girl baby she makes me a new world and this world is so beautiful

geet Mom of 3 children 6 years ago

In reply to aisha

I believe every child is unique. My baby girl is 4 months old. To give her birth was the best feeling of my life with my hubby by my side. after 14 days of her birth she used to cry every night. I believe she had colic and we used to give her colimex. Every night was challenging for us to put her off to sleep. we used to rock sing lullabies take her and roam continuously and change our hands to make her feel relaxed. I used to keep feeding her and she used to get annoyed. But I learnt from my experience after 3 months babies understand us better and we are able to understand their sign language. So things get resolved better. Overall every face of motherhood is beautiful and worth remembering as each day passes by

sbhi bachche ek jaise hi hote h bt unhe unique parents banate h

geet Mom of 3 children 6 years ago

In reply to SHRUTI

hello everyone. my son is just 2 months old now. he is my first child. i was not aware of anything before becoming mom. now i can understand the feelings of my parents. how much they have done for me. my baby is my life. i take care of every small things of my baby. i have do done all alone because my husband job is in banglore and i stay in indore. when my son was born he was medical fit and dr allow us to take him home after my delivery but after 12 day, my son had a fever and dr told me that he has sepsis and it is deadly diseases.me and my husband was in hospital my with baby about 21 days. that time was very cucial for us but we were strong and we did care and give love to our baby. he is still weak but fine now. he has become important part of my life. actual he is my life. he is very cute and naughty.

trust is important

SHRUTI Mom of a 7 yr 1 m old boy 6 years ago

hello everyone. my son is just 2 months old now. he is my first child. i was not aware of anything before becoming mom. now i can understand the feelings of my parents. how much they have done for me. my baby is my life. i take care of every small things of my baby. i have do done all alone because my husband job is in banglore and i stay in indore. when my son was born he was medical fit and dr allow us to take him home after my delivery but after 12 day, my son had a fever and dr told me that he has sepsis and it is deadly diseases.me and my husband was in hospital my with baby about 21 days. that time was very cucial for us but we were strong and we did care and give love to our baby. he is still weak but fine now. he has become important part of my life. actual he is my life. he is very cute and naughty.

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