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Comparing your child with others lowers the confidence and self esteem of the child and is a big 'No' in parenting! As Modern Parents, we need to take responsibility to avoid the age old negative practices of Parenting. What would you like to change about the way parents treat their Kids? How would you raise your Kid differently?

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Hardeep Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

Don’t compare your child with other child because every child has different quality. Encourage your child.never said he/ she is lower than others. If you don’t courage them they lose there confidence.

nivesha gupta Mom of a 9 yr 10 m old girl 7 years ago

Every child is different and blessed with different quality. we should not compare with other child and say 'No. to them always. As a human nature defines saying ' No' makes other person curious to repeat the things again and again. It brings negativity as well

REKHA Mom of 5 children 7 years ago

yes comparing child with others lowers confidence.let kid to be happy how they are. we should not put our ideas and thoughts in studying , playing and in eating.
we should allow them to enjoy playing with other kid, if they learn good things from other kids it's good,but we shouldn't forcefully make them to learn and compare with others

TRIPTI MAHISH Mom of a 8 yr 3 m old boy 7 years ago

Feel first what they love to do and teach them accordinly. Do not pressurized them.

harish Father of 3 children 7 years ago

we let him play eat enjoy what ever he wants...we won't put our ideas on him which he won't likes..we only guide him in right path on his likes...

Punam Jenna Mom of 3 children 7 years ago

Old and Modern Parents nothing something like that. Every kid is a unique and different from other. As parent try to understand your kids interests instead of pressurising him/her comparing with other kids. Your kid may have some unique talent other don't have and feel proud . So don't force your to kids to fulfill your dreams, encourage to bring out his/ her interest and help to fulfill it. Help your child to work on his/her weakness which in later becomes strength. Teach and guide to develop good character , honestly and ethics in his life. According to me parents happiness lies when their children are happy.

babita sehrawat Mom of a 8 yr 11 m old girl 7 years ago

every child is different..just foucus on them and identify their hidden quality.. my daughter is a great listener and she observe everything silently.. its a great quality...

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Community User 7 years ago

Just like we adults have our individuality children also have their own uniqueness.. Comparing children starts from a very young age itself.. When they are infants we compare them based on achieving milestones... The baby next door started crawling at 6 months so why is my baby not doing so.. When they reach school we compare them based on marks etc... this comparison will go on till they get fed up with us and indirectly we turn them into an inferior individual who lacks self confidence... So celebrate the uniqueness of each child and help then grow up into a strong confident individual with compassion... I love the way my daughter smiles.. Its so unique... Just like that every baby has a unique personality which we must help them develope starting from infancy... be very good friends to your children.. Let them confide in you.. Even their weaknesses, their failures.... Thats my dream... To become my daughter's best friend...

shamshi Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

in my opinion its parents responsibility to teach childrens in their character....never use bad words in front of them..

Sapna Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

Listen child what he want and what not then you have to decide their future if your child goes into wrong path then you can understood him what is bad for him or not

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