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What is expected from a 'Sanskari Bahu'?

A 'Sanskari Bahu' should wake up early, take care of the household chores & needs of family members. She should not be too ambitious in her career & always put family over her own aspirations. This is how the society defines Ideal Bahus. What can women do to break the stereotype of an ideal bahu?

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Meera Santosh Mom of a 8 yr 4 m old boy 7 years ago

hii all .. true for few women out there but I want to share my life here that I m married to a man whose parents treat me like their own daughter and i hv no restrictions in doing anything being in "so called sasural " nor i hv to wake up early n need to do all types of sterotypes chores wat ppl are talking abt.
m luvky i hv got this kinda family wish each and every family treat their bahu like their daughter. 😊😊

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Ambica Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

In reply to pooja

I did all the things which is expected from a sanskari bahu like getting up at 4 am and doing house hold chorus. but I didn't gave dowry to them as much they wanted so my all work is neglected and I became worst than a servent. I think in others house servents are being treated well than me. so I failed in the parameter of dowry. if I had given them dowry then maybe I would too become a sanskari bahu.

So true.. I thought i m only one who is feeling like servant may be i dnt like to wirk like this.
Wat ever may be you do they will always keep u showing down even if husband also come up with their wording

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Nikhar Bnsal Mom of 3 children 7 years ago

In reply to Nayna patel

"sankari bahu" hi kyu ?" SaaS" kyu nahi? kyo ki SaaS bhi kabhi bahu thi.

😂😂😂😂

Nikhar Bnsal Mom of 3 children 7 years ago

In reply to chinmayee panda

why not sanskari beta , saas, sasur and nanand.

right😂😂😂😂

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Nikhar Bnsal Mom of 3 children 7 years ago

😃😆😂😂😂 nice question to ask .
i would say i do whatever i want . i dont do any riwaz ,i do what i like. im happy my family is happy .
if question turns" sanskari pati " it will be more good🙂