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What is expected from a 'Sanskari Bahu'?

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What is expected from a 'Sanskari Bahu'?
A 'Sanskari Bahu' should wake up early, take care of the household chores & needs of family members. She should not be too ambitious in her career & always put family over her own aspirations. This is how the society defines Ideal Bahus. What can women do to break the stereotype of an ideal bahu?
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Amrita Mom of a 5 yr 1 m old girl 5 months ago
I also like many other "good Boumas(daughter in law)" have tried everything but more you bend yourself more there will be load of expectations ...Nothing is enough to make people impressed who doesnt want to get impressed.
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Mohan Kadiyala Father of 2 children 5 months ago
harsh reality
Mehrunisha shaikh Mom of 2 children 5 months ago
very true
Mehboob Mallick Mom of a 1 yr 3 m old girl 5 months ago
I think to break this stereotypes we have to be first answerable to us..
we always think about others dat wat other will think about us but no we should be answerable to our deeds.
so be good to all relations without thinking wat dey will give in return. when you will be good you will automatically be happy nd every good deed is always returnable.. So be good to others inshallah they will be good to u too..
Sangeeta Dhaka Guardian of a Newborn 5 months ago
Harsh truth of society
Sonali Mom of 3 children 5 months ago
very true
swaraj Guardian of 3 children 5 months ago
For test
Smita Satapathy Guardian of a 2 yr 11 m old boy 5 months ago
let the gents of the family also help in kitchen, definitely they should understand the importance of co-parenting and follow the same... when the growing baby will see mom and dad are sharing household work and mom is not the only taking care of the baby... that will be inculcated in to their blood and that's how thinking will change so will change the society.
Aakanksha Jhamb Mom of a 1 yr old girl 5 months ago
Sanskari Bahu...
1. Love for all (hasti, khelti, muskurati)
2. should be first happy herself, so can make others happy also.
3. happy to do the things which she'll do for her biological parents.
4. takes care of husband and baby.
Community User 5 months ago
to break this stereotypes I will first of all raise my kid differently so that in future they would not follow such typical Indian rules ... I will fight for the right thing and never suppress my feelings at the same time take care of others feelings too but will not satisfy their unusual wishes.
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