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What is expected from a 'Sanskari Bahu'?

A 'Sanskari Bahu' should wake up early, take care of the household chores & needs of family members. She should not be too ambitious in her career & always put family over her own aspirations. This is how the society defines Ideal Bahus. What can women do to break the stereotype of an ideal bahu?

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Ambica Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

List of Expectations from sanskari bahu
1. Silencer having only yes mode activated
2. Machine or free obedient servant, without any fail giving timely services
3. Definitely she should given birth a baby. AND ITS A BOY
4. All programs as well as all types of programming languages should be feeded before installing BAHU in sasural House. That to zero defect or any sort of rework. Programs like puja, cooking, washing, cleaning, teaching babies, small outside work like grocery, bill payment etc.

5. Lesser time to be spent in doing additional SEVA of in laws.
6. Priority should be sort by like Father in law(FIL) , then BIL, SIL(nanad), Husband, MIL, then ur own child, then of course u should NOT come in this list at all... They are other activities to be looked into.
7. Last not the least, she should be a chameleon type means changing her living to nature as per in laws style. Means or including ur fooding or dressing style must chnge per their one .

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M yachha Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

We should not be like the previous generations who suffered and also made others suffer too. Women should change the way our children think and feel. Educate them about gender equality and stop the stereotyping. More responsibility falls on shoulders of mothers of boys, we need to teach them to do household chores including cooking and cleaning, just like girls are taught. Equality for all should be the motto.

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Ashima Guardian of 2 children 5 years ago

exactly... true

Rayeesa Mom of a 8 yr 8 m old girl 5 years ago

Change ur next generation !! Bring up ur own kids with the lessons on equality !

IMRANA choudhury Mom of 3 children 5 years ago

keep a maid, let her help you with your household work.. and then you can do your job outside without any tension. your in laws wil not complain much, once household work is over

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p Guardian of 2 children 5 years ago

should respect elders.

Mehnaz Shaikh Mom of a 5 yr 4 m old boy 5 years ago

honesty

Sailaja Mom of 4 children 5 years ago

Listen to elders and analyse ourselves...sometimes, their experience matters a lot.

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Jyoti Singh Guardian of a 5 yr 10 m old boy 5 years ago

truly out of the context...sanskar is not a simple word that can be defined in a few sentences.Sanskari bahu means a person who can treat its members with dignity and respect who can carry forward the moral values and traditions to its next generation successfully.

Summaya Gulzar Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

so true

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