Discussion about Searching their self respect in sasural.

Searching their self respect in sasural.

indian culture looks good in joint family, i also favour in joint family before my marriage but after marriage i m nt happy with my joint family. i realised that u can only live happy in joint family when ur husband is supportive and understanable. How many women are agree with me? please comnents. there are many reason. one of then is, i hv to listened without any reason or i cant tell about that my husband. he is very aggressive person. i kept all this in my inner. which disturb me alot.

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Hetuka Mom of 3 children 4 years ago

I am agree with you dear, it's true if husband not supported then it's difficult to survive with joint family, but husband have also many reasons which we want to understand, but it's not means that he can't speak when anything wrong happens with us, he should speak that it's wrong, it's hurts you and you are also member of family...if he can't say directly, then use different way to explain parents like with use of examples of others, by caring of them , or like "Sap bhi mar jaye aur lathi bhi na tute"
but husband want to talk for justice both the side...nd Be Positive With "Jo Hota he Ache K liye hota he.. " and Keep Smile...

Meenakshi Bansal Mom of 3 children 4 years ago

you are absolutely right..! These days joint family is possible only when ur husband understand and respects ur feelings too. when he is able to take stand for right or wrong, either for parents or wife..! still u should try to share ur feelings with ur husband otherwise this inner disturbance will result in many health related issues/illness.

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Ritika Mom of 2 children 4 years ago

true

Neetika Mom of 2 children 4 years ago

It’s true.

Vijayalakshmi V Mom of a 4 yr 8 m old girl 4 years ago

Don't get depressed.Try to make ur husband understandable.Speak with him. Spend more time with him. live happily with him. Every Right things is possible if we r determined. Have a happy life...