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first challenge was breast feeding.it was my first baby.so i really dont know how to do it.i struggled for an week. relatives gave me so many instruction that made me really confused.then my baby had to admitted in nicu because of jaundice.there i got proper learning about breast feeding.

next challenge was low breastmilk .baby is hungry and you are unable to feed was the worst feeling ever.i felt guilty.i felt pain.and i had to hear taunts of my own people.

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Akshata Mom of 2 children 4 years ago

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after reading all of mom's experiences, I thought to share my motherhood journey at my first delivery everything went normal, bt same issues low breast milk, missing our beloved and sm hw looking at my sons face spent days he's 2 years nw, bt recently I gt delivered my second baby and she's 3 months old nw, as I am staying with my in laws its really difficult to manage both the kids my health, no parents support, hesitate to take help frm in-laws, they tc meanwhile taunt everywhere and i hv to listen wt ever they if there's no mistake of mine and started doing works early than to rest(I dono if it would cause any problem in future doing house work early than taking rest).

I really feel bad for you dear mommy... I think you need to talk with your husband and your parents.. I feel how much rest we do, recovery will also be in good condition.
even I had a same problem during my pregnancy. My in law used to taunt a lot. But ignoring is the best solution. and please do talk to your Gynochologist, explain your condition at home and about health. she/he may help you to get some rest N make your spouse and in laws to understand your health.

mom Guardian of a 4 yr 6 m old girl 4 years ago

after reading all of mom's experiences, I thought to share my motherhood journey at my first delivery everything went normal, bt same issues low breast milk, missing our beloved and sm hw looking at my sons face spent days he's 2 years nw, bt recently I gt delivered my second baby and she's 3 months old nw, as I am staying with my in laws its really difficult to manage both the kids my health, no parents support, hesitate to take help frm in-laws, they tc meanwhile taunt everywhere and i hv to listen wt ever they if there's no mistake of mine and started doing works early than to rest(I dono if it would cause any problem in future doing house work early than taking rest).

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Anisha Rani Mom of a 4 yr 5 m old girl 4 years ago

everyday we face new challanges .whole nights or day go without sleep .when baby have any problem lyk gas problem ,cold cough etc .i find solutions and solve it byself.when she nvr take milk find to feed her tricks .giving bath to little one is very challenging .save her from mosquito and other insects is als chalenging bcoj whole time we cant keep her in mosquito net .sometime at night when she nvr sleep even in her sweddle it was als chllenging .i sing song for her take her in my arms and walk .then she sleeps.so many things hppn which are challenging

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teena Mom of a 4 yr 7 m old girl 4 years ago

after the delivery life change, whole focus change from family to baby

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TDKLakshmi Prakash Mom of 4 children 4 years ago

heavy hair fall causes depression otherwise enjoying child's growing phase

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Pooja S 4 years ago

Nice

Pooja S 4 years ago

Nice information

Avanti Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

Everyone does have their own unique experience while delivering their baby! Mine was a little funny though. being a techie mom I had read so much about delivery and breathing as if I just had to give demo, packing my bags after understanding the signs that I'm gonna deliver in sometime..everything was a cakewalk..and yes the baby did come after 8 hours via normal delivery, but the real challenges were as follows:
@ Sleep deprivation
@ immense pain due to periods and stitches faced in normal.delivery
@ unable to sit for long hours due to pain
@ baby not able to latch properly
@ self doubting due to milk production
@ emotional trauma all together.

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Aysha Shaad Mom of a 5 yr 3 m old girl 4 years ago

Being a mom changes our world totally, changes in our sleeping schedules, we have to re arrange our activities according to babies mood. First few week after delivery moving like frustrated, feels lonlyness, learning about how to bath babies, searching in youtube how to care baby properly etc, those are my experience after having a baby 😊

Challenges after Delivery