my daughter not listening anybody what to do ,me and wife shouting and bitting some time how to handle this situation

A. Hi good morning dear parent I do understand your concern but I would advise you and really appreciate if you stop shouting at your child because when you shout the child gets more adamant and stubborn and they understand it by the end of the day no water what I do they’re only going to shout so they start ignoring you instant change your approach towards the child try to be more compassionate and polite and more patient towards your child talk to your child understand why the child is doing like this the child need your comfort not your anger please try and change your approach and behaviour towards the child no matter how frustrating it is for you right now but you will have to work on your skills to get your child back on the track