hi my son pushes his sister n hits her all the time. I have tried explaining calmly, shouting and even lock him. in a room but he continues this behavior. what should I do

A. What is the age of your child that you have not mentioned so to understand this thing when there is a huge gap between two kids or lesser gap previously the older one was the centre of your attraction everything was related to them but when the younger one comes suddenly change your direction the younger one you spend more time with them you give more time to them without preparing an older one when you have another child it’s very disturbing for them because all their attention is going to somebody else and that is when they don’t like it so the more you behave with your child lock him up slap shout do whatever you are actually making your child more stubborn and more aggressive to do this because your child is ultimately going to blame the younger one that this is why you are behaving like this because you need to spend more time with your younger one and that’s why you are doing it so instead of behaving like this with your child talk to your child make your child understand that you both are equally important to me in fact you are more important because you’re my first born but the younger one needs more attention right now because the child is still dependent on me so you need to be friends with a younger child you have to help me to take care of your sister or brother you know how it is you have to talk to your child you know screaming shouting is going to make your child get away from you you are creating a rift which will take years to so you don’t do these mistakes