#asktheexpert my 2 yr 10 mo old daughter throw alot of tantrums. like make us feel annoying by saying something which we dislike and turn on n off lights and cctv camera installed. this really triggers me while I'm busy doing any work be it household or office. could you please suggest tips n tricks to avoid such thing

A. Your 2-year, 10-month-old daughter’s tantrums and behavior like turning lights and cameras on and off, or saying things you dislike, are typical of toddlerhood. At this age, children test boundaries, seek attention, and express emotions in ways that may seem frustrating. Why She Does This: Seeking Attention – She knows these actions get a reaction from you. Asserting Independence – Toddlers love to feel in control. Exploring Cause & Effect – Turning things on/off is fun and engaging for them. Frustration or Boredom – If she cannot express emotions properly, she may act out. How to Handle It: ✅ Stay Calm & Consistent – Don’t react emotionally; keep a neutral response. ✅ Redirect Her Attention – Engage her in fun activities like coloring, puzzles, or pretend play. ✅ Set Clear Boundaries – Tell her, "Lights are not a toy. You can press this switch only when we say." ✅ Give Choices – Offer alternatives like, "Do you want to read a book or play with blocks?" instead of saying "No." ✅ Reward Positive Behavior – Praise her when she listens or plays nicely. ✅ Use a Time-Out or Ignore – If she repeats the behavior for attention, calmly ignore or briefly remove her from the situation. This phase will pass as she learns self-control and better ways to express herself. Patience and consistent discipline will help her understand limits while still feeling heard.