Hi.. my baby is 15 months old. She had birth weight 3.350 kg.. but she is always underweight. Im living in a joint family with my husband.. it is very hard to do all the house hold chores and taking care of my baby.. but im doing my best for my child. she always gets cold and fever very often.. and cought covid once. Now she is 9 kg. She is very active and had achieved her milestones.. my husband always blames me that she is lean.. he even tells me that im a failure as a mother because she is lean.. what shall i do now ? Now im continously thinking that im a bad mother.. im very depressed..

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Hi.. my baby is 15 months old. She had birth weight 3.350 kg.. but she is always underweight. Im living in a joint family with my husband.. it is very hard to do all the house hold chores and taking care of my baby.. but im doing my best for my child. she always gets cold and  fever very often.. and cought covid once. Now she is 9 kg. She is very active and had achieved her milestones.. my husband always blames me that she is lean.. he even tells me that im a failure as a mother because she is lean.. what shall i do now ? Now im continously thinking that im a bad mother.. im very depressed..

Accepted Answer

don't worry.
as compared to birth weight..
weight is low otherwise fine
start iron calcium and multivitamins supplements regularly and protein powder with milk twice a day.. offer more liquids and fruits
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if your husband could have the guts to blame you for not being a good mother what is doing as a father it is important for you to first to fall being a little strict stop doing any household source when your baby is there for you to take care of you should do only the important ones try to take help from all the members in the family because no one should be given the privilege to take it for granted if you are taking the blame then definitely your child will not get the sufficient amount of healthy environment which is needed by the child for the growth try to feed your baby small small portions at regular interval having cough cold more often and also got problems like covid is something you have to be aware and you have to make everyone everywhere in your family it could be because of the because of the infection that the baby is not gaining weight so better to connect ones with the homeo medication doctor for