kanav is almost 7 and he is so stubborn and he keeps on saying ki ap mujhai pyar nai krte but he doesn't listen at some point I just loose my patience and starts shouting nd then he cries what to do how to handle his behaviour is it normal in this age

A. I think you see you have to understand this thing with the personal experience I can tell you with but with growing age when we scream and shout a lot and lose our patience kids start to feel that we don’t love them which is why we are shouting at them all the time where the intention is not that but they don’t understand the difference between your intention or your love or the fact that they are doing something which is not right so that is why you are saying no are trying to distract the child so this is a very normal thing when they’re confused with their emotions they only understand love so try and be more patient towards your child try to have more patience instead of saying no or always rejecting the feelings of the child in terms of doing anything try to be more positive with your child and have more of positive counselling