Hello,

My daughter is 5.5 years old. Since her infant days she has played with elder kids, who use to listen to her and agree to her terms. Same in the house, all of us listen to her and if we disagree make her explain things. Hence, that way she is obedient.
But lately after lockdown when she started to play with kids her age. There are differences, arguments. fighting between the kids and she now does not want to play with kids her age or even go outside to play.
we tried explaining, got angry, went along with her to play but nothing seems to be working. She cries alot not to go out to play. She takes stress entire day thinking that she has to go out n play. It is not only with one kid and no one bulling her. it's just the disagreement with kids which makes her reluctant to be friends with anyone.
How do we handle such psychology of a child.

Question

Hello,

My daughter is 5.5 years old. Since her infant days she has played with elder kids, who use to listen to her and agree to her terms. Same in the house, all of us listen to her and if we disagree make her explain things. Hence, that way she is obedient. 
But lately after lockdown when she started to play with kids her age. There are differences, arguments. fighting between the kids and she now does not want to play with kids her age or even go outside to play. 
we tried explaining, got angry, went along with her to play but nothing seems to be working. She cries alot not to go out to play. She takes stress entire day thinking that she has to go out n play. It is not only with one kid and no one bulling her. it's just the disagreement with kids which makes her reluctant to be friends with anyone. 
How do we handle such psychology of a child.

Accepted Answer

As a parent u need to ensure what type of scree she watches n try to play some friendly or happy cartoons like every child of this age prefers peppa pig and it’s a very learning show as well for d child.and as a parent try to act like them as well and then ask ur child see u also did like this so u felt bad same way others n we also feel bad for such behaviour 
Keep motivating ur child n no need to scold every time n make them special place in her mind and heart that yes she’s /mom is there with me no matters what.then she will automatically tell and share every single talk with u

Accepted Answer

Giving time to our child is not a problem with us. We give her all the time she needs and when she needs and hence she does share her problems with us. Her screen time is minimal so these options are ruled out.

Accepted Answer

behaviour in small children changes from time to time. it is very important to give more time to the child and play with the child and this will help you in understanding why the child is having different behaviour which you are not expecting. many times rude behaviour for irritability is manifestation when the child is not able to express what he wants sos that's spending more time with the child is important. you can take help of clinical psychologist. also sometimes behaviour changes can be tdue to nutritional deficiency so you'll have to rule out that also. it is very important to totally stop tv mobile and laptop if it is going on .

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Hello dear parent! Limit the screen time. Communicate more with your child. Encourage your child to express and respond. Avoid forcing your child. Be patient and persistent in your efforts. Serve your child healthy foods in cute Babyhug stainless steel bowls and plates to encourage eating healthy.