my child has started developing strange habits now a days...He pricks his nose and then lick it..He has started putting all dirty things in mouth like cars or toys...He earlier use to wash his hands after peeing..and now he trues to lick his finger ...and when I am stopping him he has has started doing this more often..Even when he goes out for play time he tries to lick his dirty hands after playing..He is 3 years 10 months old..I don't know how to tackle this

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my child has started developing strange habits now a days...He pricks his nose and then lick it..He has started putting all dirty things in mouth like cars or toys...He earlier use to wash his hands after peeing..and now he trues to lick his finger ...and when I am stopping him he has has started doing this more often..Even when he goes out for play time he tries to lick his dirty hands after playing..He is 3 years 10 months old..I don't  know how to tackle this

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What you’re describing is very common behavior in toddlers and young children as they explore the world around them. Here’s a bit about these habits and how you can gently guide your child:

Why these behaviors happen: Nose picking and licking: Kids often do this out of curiosity or habit. It’s a way they explore sensations but can become a habit if not addressed. Putting things in mouth: Babies and toddlers explore with their mouths. It’s a natural part of learning but can be risky if they put dirty or unsafe objects in their mouth. Not washing hands: At this age, children are still learning routines and self-care habits like handwashing. What you can do: Gentle reminders: When you see your child picking his nose or putting dirty things in his mouth, calmly explain that these things are not clean and can make him sick. Offer alternatives: Give him safe toys or objects to chew or play with. Encourage handwashing: Make handwashing fun by singing songs or using colorful soap dispensers. Help him wash hands after playtime and before meals. Set a routine: Consistency helps kids learn habits. Guide him regularly but patiently. Keep environment clean: Try to keep his toys and play area clean to reduce germs. When to be concerned: If nose picking causes bleeding or sores. If he puts very small objects that can cause choking in his mouth. If he resists all guidance or has other unusual repetitive behaviors.

These behaviors are part of growing up, and with gentle guidance, your child will learn safer habits. Would you like some fun ideas to teach handwashing or tips to gently discourage nose picking?