hello mamma's,
Mera baccha 3 years ka hai. Mere Ghar me mere jethani ka baccha mere bacche se 10 months ka badha hai.uska behaviour badhe bacche jaisa hai .aur mere baccha chote bacche jaisa hai .like 2 years jaisa behaviour hai uska. mere Ghar ke family members mere bacche ku shuru se ziyada time nahi diye. aur mere jeethani ke bacche se bahot ache se baat karte the. jis me mera baccha ka socially interaction utna Acha nahi hai. ab wo 3 years ka hogaya hai ab my usku kiya aisa train karo ke wo dusre logo ke samne ache se jake baat kare. agr my usku force karti hoo to wo unlog se baat karne sharamta hai.wo aapni baat nahi rakh Pata. jaisa normal bacche appni baat mante hai na wo aisa nahi karta wo jakr bolta hai agr koi uski baat nahi samjta to wo waha se chala jata hai.
my bahot stress 😥 me hoo ke mera baccha dosre bacchu se peeche hai. plz help me

Question

hello mamma's,
Mera baccha 3 years ka hai. Mere Ghar me mere jethani ka baccha mere bacche se 10 months ka badha hai.uska behaviour badhe bacche jaisa hai .aur mere baccha chote bacche jaisa hai .like 2 years jaisa behaviour hai uska. mere Ghar ke family members mere bacche ku shuru se ziyada time nahi diye. aur mere jeethani ke bacche se bahot ache se baat karte the. jis me mera baccha ka socially interaction utna Acha nahi hai. ab wo 3 years ka hogaya hai ab my usku kiya aisa train karo ke wo dusre logo ke samne ache se jake baat kare. agr my usku force karti hoo to wo unlog se baat karne sharamta hai.wo aapni baat nahi rakh Pata. jaisa normal bacche appni baat mante hai na wo aisa nahi karta wo jakr bolta hai agr koi uski baat nahi samjta to wo waha se chala jata hai. 
my bahot stress 😥 me hoo ke mera baccha dosre bacchu se peeche hai. plz help me

Accepted Answer

Your biggest problem is that you’re comparing your child to another child okay so every child has its own personality plus the older one has always got more attention so the child in nature but you when you talk about your child don’t push your child you know you’re just pushing your child to you know fulfil your Desires that your child should be extrovert and everything let your child okay if you want to talk it’s okay if you don’t want to talk it’s okay not a problem you should be comfortable talking to people because unnecessary forcing and trying to change the personality of a child is not good the child is going to suffer the consequences later so let it be once you put your child into school the things are drastically going to change right now however your child is chilling and enjoying let child be pushing the child into doing what he wants is going distort to the personality of the child