hello,i have my daughter of 3 years and my son of 3 months.my daughter is very notorious and now a days she doesn't listen to my instructions.she used to tease my son when he is sleeping.most of the things she does intentionally it seems.i ise to scold jer but from past few days i even use to beat her but she doesn't understand things even after.i don't know how to handle my toddler.my patience is getting over on her even at small things.please suggest me some way

Question

hello,i have my daughter of 3 years and my son of 3 months.my daughter is very notorious and now a days she doesn't listen to my instructions.she used to tease  my son when he is sleeping.most of the things she does intentionally it seems.i ise to scold jer but from past few days i even use to beat her but she doesn't understand things even after.i don't know how to handle my toddler.my patience is getting over on her even at small things.please suggest me some way

Accepted Answer

You know you’re not realising the problem the problem is that your child is just feeling left out because maybe the older one was not ready for a younger sibling to be there and previously whatever time you had was belonging to your older child but now the entire time goes to the smaller child the younger one who leads you probably more right now which is why the older one is doing it together your attention to get your time and by hitting your child and scolding the child all the time you’re just drifting your child away from you which is why your child is not interested in listening to You and following you because at the end of the child also knows that you are just going to hit and that story is over if you don’t want the things to go bad this way you really need to shower love and affection to your older child get your child have an understanding of the sibling in the life how close you have to be how you are going to be together always make your older one believe that you’re still very important and I still love you the most for the younger one needs little more time because the child is not capable of doing anything on its own it’s dependent on the mom so please talk to your child instead of losing your patience it is not going to yield anything at the end of the day