Hai I ve 2 girl child one s 2yrs3months nd another s 35days kid. I feel vry difficult to handle both because my 1st kid mentaly got disturbed due to my hospitalization fr my 2nd c sec. She became more adament to the xtreme, so I would like to spend time wit my 1st kid bt the prblm s my 2nd baby s always crying fr milk due to urination nd poo often cnt even move frm her. My 1st kid s trying to hurt the little one. All these makes me stress nd getting irritated which includes my back pain too. So cn anyone help me hw to handle?

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Hai I ve 2 girl child one s 2yrs3months nd another s 35days kid. I feel vry difficult to handle both because my 1st kid mentaly got disturbed due to my hospitalization fr my 2nd c sec. She became more adament to the xtreme, so I would like to spend time wit my 1st kid bt the prblm s my 2nd baby s always crying fr milk due to urination nd poo often cnt even move frm her.  My 1st kid s trying to hurt the little one. All these  makes me stress nd getting irritated which includes my back pain too. So cn anyone help me hw to handle?

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Hai mam as u said elder kid s tkn care of her grandparents , uncle nd aunt the thing s my elder 1 s vry pampered child by everyone In my family which made her to b vry adamant to the core, due to tat am unable to control her unwanted activities which leads to  stress me. So I need help  hw to make her to b control?

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Your elder child is facing sibling rivalry. That is the reason why she’s seeking your attention and is trying to harm the younger one. Someone should give more attention to the elder child preferably your partner. The elder child should be diverted towards some other activities.￼Write Your Answer Here

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you should keep patience because if you will lose your patience the things will be more worst so just make things comfortable and you can consult a doctor for a proper counselling once

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Hello ma’am I would just like to tell you to hire a help. Just keep a small girl who is about 16 years and 17 years old for 24 seven at your home so that at least when you are spending your time with your older child and younger one is monitored and your kids do not have much of an age difference so it is definitely going to be difficult for you which is why I am advising you to hire proper help the more time you give to your elder one things are going to settle down and you keep telling your child that she is precious to you and the second child is small so needs more attention which is why you are deviated but you do not love your older child any less you in fact love the child more because your first child completed you slowly gradually I am sure things are going to change