#AskTheExpert my daughter is almost 3 years old. Her meltdowns and tantrums have grown leaps and bounds. she does not listen to anything I say. i have tried talking calm, making her understand, making it like a game, sometimes scolding, nothing works. she will cry for anything and everything . little things like brushing, washing hands etc is a massive struggle. she is a happy spirited child but her temper tantrums are getting worse. i don't know if this is normal for her age or I should get advice from a counselor.