I have a 3 year old daughter I delivered last month but after that my daughter is a bit annoying for no such reason what I observe is maybe she is annoyed coz a new born baby...
what can I do to make her calm and feel loved ???

Question

I have a 3 year old daughter I delivered last month but after that my daughter is a bit annoying for no such reason what I observe is maybe she is annoyed  coz a new born baby...
what can I do to make her calm and feel loved ???

Accepted Answer

I think you did not prepare your child for the coming child because what happened is for last three years this was the centre of your eye the apple of your eye everything now what has happened is because of the younger sibling coming you’re not giving enough time to the child which is what is annoying for the young older one so you need to explain it to the child said that I still love you the most you are my first priority but actually the younger one doesn’t do anything on its own no she needs me more than you do which is why I’m spending more time with her but does not make you less important to me try to keep your child around you when you are feeding and all cover yourself and feed the child so that your child does not have access to what you are doing the older one and talk to your child with your child keep your child around you only try to make the bonding from the very beginning itself this is your sibling your best friend so you need to bond with it try to be positive with your child and make sure that no matter what you do not lose your temper

I have a 3 year old daughter I delivered last month but after that my daughter is a bit annoying for no such reason what I observe is maybe she is annoyed coz a new born baby... what can I do to make her calm and feel loved ???