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Mom of a 3 yr 3 m old girlAug 14, 2017

Q. Q. hai everyone, I m mom to a 9 month old baby. I am a working mom and joined my job after leave at night shift yesterday night from evening 6 to morning 6. as I knew I will be alloted night shifts I have trained my baby to feed from bottle before sleeping and made a particular time (before 10 o clock) for his sleep since he was 6 months old. But yesterday night after I went for job my baby girl began to cry loudly and very badly after an hour of my disappearance. she was seen restless and rejected all food given by her grandma. she didn't sleep till 12.30 night. after 12.30 she slept because of tiredness till 2 o clock. she got up after that and started crying again and my husband was forced to bring her to my office to calm her down. Y is my baby behaving so? I have trained her to sleep after bottle feeding and to sleep early. she drinks from bottle when my husband offers it and she sleeps with him too. but yesterday nobody was able to handle my baby. why is it so friends? is there anything that I can do?

pushpaMom of 2 childrenMar 02, 2018
A. I had c section so for me it was little bit difficult with elder one as i couldn't lift her when she asked for. for 15/20 days due to pains I couldn't feed her or bath n play with her.. after a month I started playing, feeding n bathing her. as soon in first meet of both my daughters I told my elder daughter that new baby is all hers and you should take care, after she started always being with her sister and now we 3 of them will be always together spending time.
Author of questionMom of a 3 yr 3 m old girlMar 02, 2018
A. u r welcome pushpa.. I noticed that u r having two babies with 2 year age gap. now can i ask for an advice from you? I m pregnant with my second baby by 2 months and my elder baby is one year 4 months old. I am worried that I will not be able to do my first baby's work as before. I feel she will loose attachment with me. will there be any problem like that. how did u feel when u were in this situation? and also is it fine to manage 2 babies after delivery?
pushpaMom of 2 childrenMar 02, 2018
A. thank you so much. I am trying from one month. as you said I not give up
Author of questionMom of a 3 yr 3 m old girlMar 02, 2018
A. hello pushpa, I had to wait for one and half months to make her adjust to bottle. I started giving her bottle since she completed 4 months. at first she rejected and rejected everytime. but I continued to offer her many times a day . gradually she began to drink from it. after that I just gave bottle milk once a day everyday. as I had to adjust her to it at night I gave it before bedtime everyday. in some cases the baby rejects bottle if it is offered by mother since baby can smell her mother and want breast milk. so try giving the baby bottle by someone else, father or grandparents without your presence... The main thing don't give up... Keep trying... Best of luck.
pushpaMom of 2 childrenMar 01, 2018
A. how did you train for bottle feeding. did she accept the bottle
Nitika Dhingra Rawal Dhingra RawalMom of a 4 yr 2 m old boyAug 14, 2017
A. Hello dear You cannot train such a small baby..Sometimes babies behave like the way you want but sometimes they don't when slowly they start recognising that their mom will go out leaving them at home..So then it happens..
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