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A Boy or a Girl? Does it Matter?

GENDER INEQUALITY Gender Bias in Parenting
A Boy or a Girl? Does it Matter?
A boy child & a girl child have been treated differently by Indian parents since ages. A desire of having a 'son' rather than a 'daughter' is still there in most parts of the country, especially the small towns! Do you agree with this ? Did you also want a 'baby boy' when you were pregnant? Why do you think our society has this preference for having sons & how can it be changed?
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Tejal Patil Mom of 2 children 3 months ago
Why to judge your parenthood based on gender? Think about those people who can't give birth to either due to some issues.
Tejal Patil Mom of 2 children 3 months ago
Why to judge your parenthood based on gender? Think about those people who can't give birth to either due to some issues.
balpreet kaur Mom of a 1 yr 3 m old boy 3 months ago
both r equal.. but still many ppl want baby boy.. v cnt change their thinking..
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prernaa mathur Mom of a 1 yr 2 m old girl 7 months ago
it dnt matter at. all especially a law should pass for those who torcher their daughter in laws for baby boy or pota hi chahye vala sentence. i faced it the entire preg. no one helped. every day beti hogi kya tumahre to beti lagra hai ultransound m my mil predict gender nd was telling my fil ladka hi higa mane to neche Ka hissa dekh hai i hsve her from d bottom nd den she was like pachtaogi beti paida ki hai my daughter is 7 mnths onky nd my mil started the chant of 2nd baby. just one ques. dusra bacha b ladki ho to kya 3-4-5-6 kare or vo b ladki ho to. i got dream of a baby girl always nd on day one my husband said beti hi honi chahye..
arar kl ko beti hi ni hongi to fr to sabke ghar ldke matlab duniya khatam. udte log beti k naam p h paise beti k leje khate h beta hote hue b pr chahte pita. chu itsva matter of choti soch only.
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Sumayya Javad Trying To Conceive 11 months ago
My mother in law once said that I'm unlucky that's why I gave birth to a daughter. But I'm happy to have 100 daughters if they are healthy
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amit Father of a 2 yr 10 m old girl 5 months ago
In reply to Saloni
ppl say or not, but mostly all wants boy as first child. Its only a mother to whom it doesn't matters if it's boy or girl
My hubby prayed so much that we should have a baby girl and god gifted us and uth an angel girl baby ❤️
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Ritu giri Guardian of a 1 yr 1 m old boy 7 months ago
but when I was pregnant i want baby girl first
prernaa mathur Mom of a 1 yr 2 m old girl 7 months ago
In reply to Sumayya Javad
My mother in law once said that I'm unlucky that's why I gave birth to a daughter. But I'm happy to have 100 daughters if they are healthy
me here she said pacgtaogi. b
Prerna singh Mom of a 1 yr 6 m old boy 7 months ago
no,it doesn't matter whether you have a girl or boy both are equal,the difference is only in people's mind if they change the way they think everything gonna be possible,as a human being I always took stand for what is right or what is wrong nd gender equality..
nd I always want to participate nd stand for gender equality because we can change it today ,there is no word like tomorrow for changing anything,
it's my request to all the parents nd people to love there child whether it is girl or boy .every child deserves love..
THANK YOU FOR GIVING A CHANCE TO PARTICIPATE IN THE ACTIVITY LIKE THIS.
sarah sabun Mom of 3 children 7 months ago
It does not matter at all... Whether it is boy or girl... Both are our child....our blood...how does it matter on gender. Both are blessings from god.... No special preference should be given for boy or girl...
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A boy child & a girl child have been treated differently by Indian parents since ages. A desire of having a 'son' rather than a 'daughter' is still there in most parts of the country, especially the small towns! Do you agree with this ? Did you also want a 'baby boy' when you were pregnant? Why do you think our society has this preference for having sons & how can it be changed?

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