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A Boy or a Girl? Does it Matter?

natasha sarangal Mom of a 7 m old girl 3 weeks ago
Payal Mom of a 2 yr 4 m old boy 9 months ago
It's highly matter -I'm the victim.
I'm a proudy mother of 18th months old sweet baby girl , bt since birth my close relatives made some insulting attitude &comments about my god gifted child.
Now they very casual & affectionate abot my child bt bt I never forget & forgive them which I do promise myself.
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Vidisha Mom of a 4 yr 1 m old boy 2 months ago
A Girl or boy should matter the most only when there's no female or male child in a family . But if this isn't a situation then any child which we gets should be welcomed equally .We are not the creators so we should not ruin the feeling of parenthood or a responsible guardians to the child.It takes lot of emotions ,dedications,expectations ,physical ability to bring up a child in this world .Why to become a monster to the little souls who are just born with their respective sex.
VINEE GAIKWAD Mom of 2 children 3 months ago
Not everyone gets the privilege of becoming parents. So if you are getting that chance, it should not matter if it is a girl or a boy. Accept God's gift without any hesitation
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Akansha 2 months ago
Yes, this has been going on since ages and is there in the recent times as well. The biggest change that needs to be done to bring a difference is changing the morals and values taught in the household. The culture and upbringing of a home affects the outlook of a person in a huge manner. And until the mindset remains the same, nothing can be changed.
Kareti Anusha Mom of a 5 yr 3 m old boy 2 months ago
yes it is there for recent time also,both are equally has treated . both are same
Ameyah Mom of a 1 yr 6 m old girl 2 months ago
Being blessed with a child itself is a big blessings why should we all discriminate in a sex .Firstly we all should treat all equally .this discrimination is not from the birth of the child but also in adults.we should ask ourselves Do we respect a women heartily,she carries no so many roles,she is a sister,mom,daughter,wife,there is a proverb women itself is the enemy of other women.
if we can i want to change this behaviour of all 🥰
Hettal Khatri 2 months ago
Baby is baby I didn't find any difference in motherhood by becoming mom of baby girl. Even I am shocked when some people are making differences in baby boy and girl. IT CAN ONLY CHANGE WHEN PEOPLE CHANGE THEIR MIND SET AND GIVE VALUE TO WOMEN IN OUR SOCIETY, THEY SHOULD KNOW WITHOUT WOMEN FAMILY CANNOT SERVIVE.
Patricia Guardian of a 1 yr old girl 2 months ago
My warm wishes to FirstCry....Firstly I would like to say that I'm proud to be mom of a girl child.... Now a days they are many couples who don't have children and opting to have a child.. And when finally you know that you are going to have a baby then why make difference in baby's gender.... Becoming a parent itself is a blessing from God....So be happy for a bundle of joy if it's a girl child or a boy.... Don't forget that Children are gift of God....😍😍😊😊
Shilpa Karan Mom of a 7 m old girl 3 months ago
no it doesnt matter for me because i m also a girl and i know the girl child is more good than a boy my parents also treated me different than my brothers but i do not have these difference and now my baby girl is 4 months and love her so much and i will give her all of that things which i have not got in my life my daughter deserves everything in life no mattter that she is girl she is a human being and every human being should be treated as same as all.My lovely daughter
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