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Community User 3 hours ago
I'm a mom of 11 month kid..
At the initial stages of my pregnancy, i had gained a lot of weight. my mom in law used to check my weight and BP weekly when i got pregnant. n no, she's not a doctor...she just knows stuff and tries it out.

i thought she was the best mom in law thinking that she's gonna take care of me... then, she suggested me to eat less. coz of my weight... she thought I ate more and that's why i had gained weight.. I never shared this with anyone. not even with my parents.

when I was around 7 months pregnant, I had gotten thin as hell with just my belly protruding out coz ofcourse, i was pregnant. Relatives asked me if I had been well or not. but when the doctor said that my baby's weight wasn't much, that's when I decided, to hell with everyone else and my mom in law... I'll do what the doctor suggests. soon my parents shifted to this city where i now lived, just for my sake and to take care of me and my baby. i started eating well again.

I stayed for 2 and half months only after my baby was born. My mom in law wanted me home within a month itself... n told this through my husband.. my parents requested for another week more but thanks to Corona, i could stay for another one and half month.

after that, when i went to my in law's house...things started to get on my nerves. my husband saw to all the stupid things his mother did and how she made me cry and was so rude to me and my baby, that he decided to leave the house for our sake.

Now, we live in a rented house but my husband is the happiest! n so am I.
even though I am struggling and i have no help. i teach online, taking care of house and my baby as well as am studying for doctorate as but he helps a lot, as much as he can. COVID helped me in some ways that no one else could. it kept us all home and together.
we both work from home now and I just hope that we stay well and happy together.
financially it's been a bit heavy on us coz of COVID but, this is what life is all about I guess...ups and downs.
I have a hope that we'll manage and we'll do good.
Monalissa Mazumdar Mom of a 11 m old girl 3 hours ago
In reply to Sangeetha Harikumar
I am a mom of 8 year boy child and I left my job to take care of my kid. Since I was working previously and so i was financially independent and buy anything as per need but now am dependent on my husband and so I feel hesitant to ask him to buy for me. If he questions me or not allow me to buy I might feel very bad and embarrassed. So I search for things which are under my budget and buy. I lost my happiness and independence
you didn't lose happiness. it's still there in the form of your baby. once time passes and your kid grows up, go for another job as financial independence is necessary in Today's World... this time will pass but for now, you have to have patience.
Monalissa Mazumdar Mom of a 11 m old girl 3 hours ago
In reply to noor
meri first beti huyi to me bhut kush thi... ibhut hi duao bad naseeb huyi ho.... jab meri dusari beti huyi... to me bhut hi zayada kush huyi.. me bata nhi sakti itni kushi jaise mujhe lyf me kabhi mili hogi jaise... shayaad hi isse zayada achha tym aur kabhi nhi aayega lyf me meri... bas akele overload kaam ki vajah se me yeh tym enjoy nhi ker pa rhi.. isska bhut afsoos rehta hai..
they're beautiful. Touchwood.
noor Mom of 2 children 2 years ago
meri first beti huyi to me bhut kush thi... ibhut hi duao bad naseeb huyi ho.... jab meri dusari beti huyi... to me bhut hi zayada kush huyi.. me bata nhi sakti itni kushi jaise mujhe lyf me kabhi mili hogi jaise... shayaad hi isse zayada achha tym aur kabhi nhi aayega lyf me meri... bas akele overload kaam ki vajah se me yeh tym enjoy nhi ker pa rhi.. isska bhut afsoos rehta hai..
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Monalissa Mazumdar Mom of a 11 m old girl 3 hours ago
In reply to Firstcry User
Sometimes I feel like putting tape on few people's lips when they give unwanted advise.
true.... but we've got to act all smiles and agree with everything... kya karein...free advice bohot available hai market me... it happens everytime with me and i guess, with all the new mothers too.

just listen and silently disagree... mothers and doctors know the best. always talk to your pediatrician and then go ahead with everything related to your baby. don't even trust Google you know.

all the best. stay calm.. :)
Monalissa Mazumdar Mom of a 11 m old girl 3 hours ago
In reply to Firstcry User
early morning baby was sleeping at the wall corner she woke up n was play so I went in the corner n never knew wen I fel a sleep my 3month's baby was fallen from bed n I don't know wen I woke up I was like n m searching for baby she was under the bed
there are bed railings available online and in market to keep babies safe and avoid them falling.
please get those. you never know what can hurt a baby.. they're very delicate. be careful.
Community User 2 years ago
Sometimes I feel like putting tape on few people's lips when they give unwanted advise.
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Sasi Rekha Mom of a 8 m old girl 1 month ago
i am a mom of 7 month old baby. i have to return to office from January after my maternity leave. My parents don't talk to me as i married the one i loved, opposing them.. Now, i have to let my baby with my husband's grand mother. sometimes she is very rude to my baby. she will not pick my baby up immediately when my baby is crying. she doesn't understand my baby's sleep play routine and shouts at her even when we are there with our baby at home. i don't know, how rude she is going to be with my baby in my absence if i go to work. inorder to meet the financial needs, i can't quit my job either. i am so worried about my little girl.. i love her so much. i am really going to miss her.. the hardest phase of my life. i wish my parents were by my side to support me and look after her.
Sadaf Abdul Fareed Mom of a 1 yr 5 m old boy 1 month ago
I would like to confess that I love my baby, my husband my family and all people🌎✨❤
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Fatimaziya Mom of 2 children 1 Year ago
In reply to Farhat Fatima Siddiqui
Sometimes I feel like putting tape on few people's lips when they give unwanted advise.
Ya u r absolutely right dear that type of person puts word in our mouth otherwise we r not like them
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