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Pinal Meghani Mom of a 2 yr 5 m old girl 11 months ago

In reply to Mamta Dhiman

In crona situation , We have to live with inlaws joint family.They are good but
1.there is no space for your personal life and opinion.
2.Mental health is affected
3. You can't live freely
4. Cant do the things we use to do when live separate
5.Most annoying is back stabbing
6. cant buy the things with freedom,we need to tell them we are buying this that and have to show them
7. can't eat together
8. Cant take care of child properly
9. before speaking we need to make sure it wont hurt them(In short keep quite)
10.most important thing is mental health which is most affected and there is no peace

I totally agree with your opinions.
I have to live with in laws for Life time. no matter how I feel. most annoying thing in it is my sister-in-law..cant handle her.

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sumaiya Mom of 4 children 9 months ago

So true..

Riya Mom of 3 children 9 months ago

even I have inlaws ,but they are very helpful , especially in managing the kids.During lockdowns ,we got enough quality time to develop a special bonding. I think they are a blessing . they recuperate the love and acceptance u give them.

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khushi khushi Mom of 2 children 9 months ago

In reply to Pinal Meghani

I totally agree with your opinions.
I have to live with in laws for Life time. no matter how I feel. most annoying thing in it is my sister-in-law..cant handle her.

Same situation,

kavita Mom of 3 children 9 months ago

share your experiences nd you know other person' s thinking

Aswathy Manoj Mom of a 1 yr 4 m old boy 9 months ago

In reply to Mamta Dhiman

Uff... I was reading your experience and at the same time, thinking that I wrote this. Such kind of relatability !! The same situation here also... So, now I realise that I'm not the only one who face these kind of problems.

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shaivi Mom of a 7 yr 6 m old boy 11 months ago

In reply to Rita Pandit

Before marriage i thought i am so blessed that I have In laws, after marriage also it was good for some time but as the time passed I realised that whatever u do for ur family u r still a outsider for them..
Although this is not true for everyone but still its true for atleast 90% of women's life..

I feel the same....

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Sunitha Setti Mom of 2 children 9 months ago

Yes

Aswathy Manoj Mom of a 1 yr 4 m old boy 9 months ago

Very correct. We have to obey the rules of such family and spent the rest of our life time. Only one life and that too in some one's control will be irritating after a particular point of time. Some in laws are very lovable. But in so many houses, they are very much irritating. It hurts when a husband did not understand the mental pressure of a wife due to his father and mother.

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Kanika Mom of 2 children 9 months ago

wow

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