Your 4 Months Old Baby Growth and Development


Being a parent is indeed a blessing, and this realization will be quite evident as your baby steps into its fourth eventful month. The disarming smile and the incoherent babble certainly makes your world a more beautiful one. Check out this comprehensive guide to infant development at 4 months that details all its important aspects for you.

Growth Of Baby

Every single month of your baby’s first year is time for quick growth when his brain and body is developing. If you are wondering how much a 4 month baby’s weight should be, simply double your baby’s birth weight to get a fair idea of an ideal weight. However, your baby’s weight gain is just one of the growth parameters. Speak to your doctor if you feel your baby’s face, thighs, arms or bottom doesn’t have much flesh or fat.

Baby’s Development

  • When your baby first comes into this world, their vision is poor and not very sharp. By the 4th month, the clarity of vision improves especially with respect to colours. You can introduce bright clothing and toys for the baby to appreciate the same.
  • When it comes to your baby’s vocabulary, it may seem like there is nothing much. However, if you pay close attention, you may notice them trying to mimic the words you say.

16 Week Old Baby Development

Your baby is now able to create some vocal sounds on his own and understands them too. Your little one may utter much-coveted words like mama or dada though he may not understand the meaning. Remember, your child’s imitation powers are growing, and he will mirror your words and actions, much to your delight.

17 Week Old Baby Development

Your baby will have doubled his weight by week 17, and his tummy is larger too. If you are breastfeeding him, 6 to 8 feeds a day is enough or 5 to 6 feeds if you include solids too. However, there will be many distractions now as he is alert to external sound and other stimuli. He will play with his hands and feet, use them to grab at things and can play alone for a longer time than before.

18 Week Old Baby Development

Your baby will begin to laugh and giggle although crying will still be his primary mode of communicating his needs. Funny faces, sounds and peek-a-boo games will excite and generate smiles all around. He will love to explore and play with simple objects like a piece of cloth or a rattle or a bell hanging over his baby crib. He is also able to distinguish between colours and shades and will show interest in coloured clothing, toys and books.

19 Week Old Baby Development

Your tiny tot’s spine is straightening and gaining support from surrounding muscles. This will help her to hold her head and lift her shoulders when you pick her up. Her vocabulary is growing too so you can prepare yourself for many incoherent babbling sessions that will go on for a while. Make sure you follow a routine that leads to slumber time. Feeding her, bathing her, reading a story to her or singing a lullaby can lead to a good night’s sleep for her and you too.

Baby Health

Your baby is now ready for the mandatory immunizations that a 4-month-old baby needs. It is also time to inform the doctor about any adverse reactions your baby has had from the initial vaccinations. The infant is yet prone to allergies so be careful if you are planning to introduce solid food at this stage. Ensure breast milk or formula is his primary source of food to allow him to get accustomed to the solid food slowly. Take care of nappy rash by keeping the skin as dry as possible. Use warm water to clean the baby’s bottom while changing the diaper.

Baby Milestones – 4 Months

The following are the important milestones your baby will achieve during his fourth month:

  • Response to care and love: When you show love and affection to your baby, your baby will respond to it with a smile or a happy gesture. Your tiny tot now knows that kisses and caresses are equivalent to love and will react accordingly when you shower it with love. Your four-month-old baby is now able to understand love especially when it comes from parents and siblings.
  • Shows Improved memory: Your baby’s recognition is better in the fourth month and will react towards specific toys and people too. He may show his likes and dislikes in a defined manner where he may love the company of his grandfather or resist being held by an aunt. He will be able to choose a favourite toy or a brightly coloured ball from a large and growing collection.
  • Displays emotions: Just as your little one understands love, he is also able to express sadness when he enters the fourth month. He will cry when he doesn’t see you around or when he sees you walk out of the room. He will stop crying when he sees you coming close. The wail of sadness will be different from the cry of hunger, and you will be able to distinguish between them.
  • Holds a Steady head: When you hold your baby in your arms, he will be able to hold his head without any support. This happens because his neck muscles are a lot stronger due to which he is able to make natural movements. Also, notice how he holds his head when you pick him up from a horizontal position.
  • Develops stronger muscles: When you place your baby on his stomach, he will look to push his elbows downwards. Your baby’s upper arms are developing stronger muscles, and so are the back and shoulder muscles, which help him to do that.
  • Can roll over: Your baby now has an increased range of movements at his disposal which allows him to roll over from tummy to back. This is a huge step in his physical development which is mostly due to the growing strength in shoulder and back area.
  • Will laugh and smile: The fourth month brings a lot of giggles and laughs which are accompanied by a flurry of hand and leg movements. Anything that your baby will find funny and interesting, like a sudden movement or an amusing sound will elicit laughter and gurgles.


By the fourth month, the baby will be able to connect to you and the rest of the family too. Your baby will respond to other siblings in the same manner it responds to you. They are slowly learning whom to trust and whom to turn to when they need certain things. It is best to keep your little one away from television and other digital content as they do not need this kind of stimulation. You and the rest of your family are enough to provide the brain stimulation they need at four months.

4 Month Old Baby Activities


Choose from any of the following activities that will help develop and keep your little one engaged. These four months’ baby activities are ideal to allow the baby to spend some time on his own and will provide a break for you too.

  1. Place a small soft toy on your child’s chest and watch his reactions. The toy will hold his attention for a long time though it may fall off at times. Stay nearby and put the toy back in place.
  2. Put some colourful socks on your baby’s feet or use foot rattles if you want. Place a small rolled-up towel or napkin under her hips to elevate her position a bit so she can see her feet easily.
  3. Reading out to your baby is a proven way of developing his/her cognitive skills. Get books that are sturdy and contain lots of pictures and images. Your baby will want to touch, feel and even taste the books, so allow her to touch the pages and characters.
  4. When your little one is awake, he will be moving his hands and legs continuously. Give him additional work-out by lifting him while lying on your back. Provide toys that surround him so he can pivot himself in different directions.
  5. Balls are objects of fascination for most babies as they roll around and wonder how that happens. Bounce the ball, roll it around and gently bounce it against the wall to help your baby understand what a ball can do.

4 Month Old Baby Care

Your baby is four months old now and will begin kicking around, so it’s time to look at a few safety factors. Baby-proof the immediate vicinity by removing any objects that could topple over and ensure the place is well-sanitized too. Dust and grime are everywhere so make sure you regularly clean and wipe your baby’s bed and toys he handles. If a sleeping pattern is being developed, do not rock or feed your baby to put it to sleep. Let them learn to relax and fall to sleep on their own.


By the time your baby is four months old, the feeding process will have developed into an efficient one. Your baby’s feeding skills will have improved as their sucking and latching will be assured and deliberate now. Any difficulties related to feeding will be settled by now. Your infant’s development and nutritional needs will be provided through your breast milk or bottle milk when it is four months old. You can introduce solids at around 6 months when his gut is stronger, and the risk of allergies is lower too.



Your baby’s sleeping pattern will be more defined as she sleeps for smaller periods during the day and for longer and continuous periods during the night. You may think that if she sleeps less during the day, the night sleep will be for prolonged periods. However, day sleep influences night sleeps and will help your baby to develop a better sleep routine too. At this stage, your baby may protest when you try to settle her down for sleep, and this will be a new thing for you. Do not give in to it and keep doing all that you have been doing to get it to sleep. Involve your partner and get his help in putting the baby to sleep.

Tips For Parents


Here are a few tips for parents that will help to enhance the experience of nurturing a four-month-old baby:

  • Place your baby in your lap and put the book you want to read out from in front of you. A bright-coloured book is your best bet to keep your eager-beaver interested as it attracts and helps in cultivating his sense of vision too.
  • Give a name or identity every toy, object and person that your child sees. When his dad arrives, say “Say hi to Daddy” or introduce him to a toy saying “here is the ball”. This is a wonderful way of teaching him the name-object association and new words.
  • Speak as much as possible to your bundle of joy. In this manner, he will pick up a few words though he may not understand them. Simple words like dada, mama or baba are easy to repeat for the baby if you repeat them in your daily conversation with him.
  • Encourage your little one to remain on her tummy and let her reach out to toys and other objects of interest during this time. This allows her to exercise and develop muscles around the neck and back. Place toys in her field of vision so she can track them by moving her neck and head.
  • In order to help your baby to have better control over his movements, carry out activities that allow free movement of his arms and elbow joints. Hold his hands while reciting a poem or singing a song and sway them from one end to another. You can also do this by holding a toy and letting him grab the other end.

Every baby is unique and has a different body structure and growth. Do not worry if your baby does not meet his milestones at the given time. For example, premature babies need more time to show ideal development. Speak to your doctor and understand the limitations you should consider while looking at your four-month-old babies development pattern.


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