How To Deal With Appetite Loss in Toddlers

Loss of Appetite in Toddlers – Reasons & Solutions

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If your toddler is turning away pretty much everything that you serve on the plate, you may have a picky eater on your hands. It certainly is worrying when your little one creates a fuss about food on a regular basis. But don’t worry; a loss of appetite is a common problem in little kids. If you’re facing the same with your child, here’s how you can tackle it.

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What Is Loss of Appetite?

Loss of appetite refers to the lack of hunger or the desire to eat anything. This is common in children between the ages of two and six. This usually happens because a child’s growth rate slows down significantly after the first year. In the first year, your child may put on about 5 to 6 kilos. However, between one to six years of age, he may not gain this much weight. He may even go for three to four months without gaining any weight.

The child’s brain has an appetite centre that regulates the intake of food and directs the child to eat as much as he requires to grow and conserve energy. Since he isn’t growing as fast anymore, he may have a weaker appetite, which is also called as psychological anorexia.

appetite loss in toddlers

What Are the Major Causes of Loss of Appetite in Toddlers?

While a slow rate of growth may be the leading cause of a loss of appetite in your child, there may also be other reasons.

1. Illness

If your child is sick and has a fever, a sore throat or other symptoms, his appetite during this period as well as during the process of recuperation may be weak.

2. Depression or Stress

Sudden changes such as the loss of a loved one can lead to stress and trigger a loss of appetite in your child. It can also lead to him becoming more anxious and aggressive towards others.

3. Eating Junk Between Meals

If your toddler has access to junk food in between meals, then his appetite is bound to drop during mealtimes. It might also lead to him developing a variety of health problems along with obesity.

4. Excessive Intake of Fluids

Drinking too many fluids, except water, in between and during meals can lead to a loss of appetite as your child’s tummy will be full!

5. Anaemia

If your child has anaemia, then he may feel weak and experience a loss of appetite.

6. Lack of Physical Activity

If your toddler isn’t physically active and spends too much time in front of the TV or sitting, it can hamper his digestion, leading to a loss of appetite.

Lack of physical activity causes appetite loss

How Much Food Is Sufficient for Toddlers?

Here is a chart of nutrients that your toddler needs on a daily basis.

Food Type For 2-year-olds For 3-year-olds What Can Be Given?
Fruits 1 cup (100-150gms) 1 to 1½ cups (150-200gms) · Fresh juice

· Fruit puree

· Whole fruits


Vegetables 1 cup 1 to 1½ cups · Mashed or chopped vegetables

· Raw green leaves

· Vegetable juice

· Corn

· Soups

Grains 85 grams 100-150 grams · Bread

· Poha

· Rice or daliya (porridge)

· Roti


Protein Foods 55 grams 85-100 grams · Cooked meat, chicken, seafood

· Eggs

· Lentils

· Cooked beans or peas

Dairy 2 cup 2 ½ Cups · Milk

· Curd

· Paneer

How to Increase a Toddler’s Appetite

Increasing your toddler’s appetite is a process which involves a lot of patience and observation. Once you identify the reason behind your child’s weak appetite, you can cater to the solution accordingly.

Tips to Boost Your Toddler’s Appetite

In case your child is a picky eater, you can use the following tips to try and help develop his appetite.

Getting Creative with presentation

  • Let your child decide the quantity – Rely on your child’s appetite centre in his brain and let him decide how much he wants to eat.
  • Limit his snacks to two per day – Do not allow more than two snacks per day between mealtimes. Loading up on snacks will decrease your toddler’s appetite.
  • Limit fluid intake – Put the cap on fluid intake at about 480 ml per day, as fluids (apart from drinking water) contain calories that can make the child feel full.
  • Serve different varieties – You can rotate the menu and add new recipes to keep your child interested and also learn about his food preferences.
  • Get creative with the presentation – Make food fun with creative shapes and colours or even fancy little plates and cutlery.
  • Serve small portions – Smaller portions are less overwhelming to look at and eat, which means your toddler can finish off his plate of food quicker than if you’d serve him large portions. He may even ask for a second serving.
  • Fix mealtimes – A fixed timing can regularise your toddler’s appetite and prepare him for meals.
  • Make mealtimes a fun family experience – Interact with the entire family during mealtime and make it fun. This can help your toddler look forward to having his food and on time, too. Do not eat your meals in front of the TV.
  • Try giving your child more finger foods – Finger foods are easier to get a hold of, even for kids who haven’t learned how to use a spoon.
  • Don’t spoon-feed – If your child knows how to eat with a spoon, don’t get tempted to feed him if he isn’t eating. It may come across as force-feeding and will further lead to a slump in his appetite.
  • Avoid conversation about eating – Don’t discuss or complain about your child’s eating habits in front of your child as it may worsen the problem.
  • You can consider giving your child daily vitamins – If you are worried about your child’s daily food intake, you can check with a doctor about small doses of vitamins for your child.

What You Should Not Do

In an attempt to boost your child’s appetite, do not engage in the following:

  • Ensure that the snack is not too filling and is also nutritious.
  • Do not force-feed or spoon-feed him.
  • Never awaken your child to feed him.
  • Don’t threaten your child to eat.
  • Don’t embarrass or make your child feel guilty.
  • Don’t force your toddler to sit on the high chair for a long period of time, in case he hasn’t finished his meal.

When to Consult the Doctor for a Slump in Appetite

If you notice the following things in your child, you may need to consult a doctor as soon as possible.

  • He’s losing weight.
  • He hasn’t gained weight in the past six months.
  • He’s ill with conditions like diarrhoea or fever.
  • He vomits when he has certain foods.
  • He hasn’t urinated in over eight hours.

It is possible that very often, parents can misunderstand the child’s changing needs to be due to a loss of appetite. This is when they tend to fuel the problem further by forcing the child to eat or complain that their child doesn’t eat. It is essential that you exercise patience if your toddler isn’t consuming the normal amount of food that he usually eats. Check whether his weight and height are appropriate for his age and you’ll usually notice that there is little to worry about.

Also Read: 18 Best Ways To Develop Healthy Eating Habits In Kids

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