Sometimes when friends come over, they bring along their little one as well. It will only be a matter of time then when the kids start talking and interacting with one another. Now imagine this, your kid takes your friend’s kid to his room and starts sharing all his toys. Wouldn’t that be amazing?
Sharing is one of the fundamental elements of life and your child must master it to develop kindness, appreciation, and self-respect. Sharing doesn’t only teach your kids how to be empathetic but is a valuable life lesson designed for every human being. It’s a new experience and the more experiences your child goes through, the better he becomes down the lane. If you’ve always wondered how to teach lessons on sharing for preschoolers, we’ve got you covered.
Sharing is a fundamental life skill. When your child learns to share, he begins to understand the meaning of taking turns and giving chances. From teamwork, cooperation, and relying on partners and such, sharing develops all these aspects in their lives.
Yes. At the tender age of three, children start to develop a sense of empathy. However, they cannot control the result of their impulses. Since children don’t have complete control over their impulses before the age of 5 and above, you may notice your child reluctant to share even if he does want to. Fret not, it’s completely natural, and you should give your little one some time. After all, these are physiological changes taking place inside him which he doesn’t have control over at that moment.
Effective Ways to Teach Child Sharing
Here are 12 highly effective sharing activities for kids-
- Taking Turns: Are your kids playing with the train? Tell them to take turns or share their toys. If they don’t share, take the toys away and let them realize the importance of sharing. This way, next time, they won’t hesitate to share and cooperate with each other instead of being selfish.
- Appreciate Them: Did you just spot your child doing a good deed by sharing a cookie with his friend or sibling? Give him some appreciation and make him feel nice. He’ll crave that response from you again and definitely share next time.
- Time It: Maybe your child faces a challenge to start sharing? Setting a timer during play dates is a great way to start things off. For example, if your child is playing with LEGOs, he’s got only 10 minutes to build whatever he likes until it’s his brother’s turns. If he wants to have another go, he’ll have to patiently wait for his turn or play with another toy in the meantime.
- Tell Them It’s Temporary: If your child throws temper tantrums over sharing tell them that it’s not permanent but temporary. Children don’t like sharing their most valuable possessions (and who wouldn’t?), but once they realize it’s only for a few minutes to hours until they get it back, they’ll happily oblige.
- Bond With Your Child: According to scientific research, it’s a proven fact that children who are close to their parents are less reluctant to share what they have. The reason behind this is since they get enough love and affection from close ones, they don’t feel the need to derive that love from inanimate objects or toys.
- Explain The Benefits of Sharing: Sit down with your child and explain to him/her the benefits of sharing. If your child doesn’t share with others, he won’t receive anything either. Once he gets this simple concept, he’ll be more than happy to share.
- Keep Away His Favourite Toys: If your child is reluctant to share his toys, ask him which ones he’d like to share. The ones he absolutely doesn’t want to, you can store them away on a shelf or somewhere else until their playdate arrives. Once their friends leave, you can give it back to them. This will slowly help them transition to sharing more valuable things later on as they get accustomed to the act of lending lesser valuable things.
- Show Them Sharing In Real Life: Extend the concept of sharing by showering love, affection and other things in real life. Sharing doesn’t stop at only food or toys. Teach them to share time and precious moments with siblings like going to the park together or going to the theatre as a family. Teach them to hug their siblings and share emotional experiences with others too.
- Use Different Words: If your child hesitates to share, you can try using words like “lending,” “borrowing,” or “getting it back after a few hours (or some time)” This will make them feel secure and more likely to share once they are aware that they’ll get back what they share. Use words that are easy to process and understand when explaining the concept of sharing.
- Be A Role Model:Your child copies you at the beginning of their lives which is why being a role model for sharing is important. Share a pizza slice or a sandwich with your spouse and whenever you sit down to snack, ask your little one whether he wants some of it. By demonstrating sharing with others and by giving personal examples, he’ll want to be on the fun too.
- Teach Them Charity: When summertime rolls by and vacation bells ring, it’s time to go do some shopping and share with the less fortunate. If there are toys your child no longer likes playing with, keep them piled up for the occasion. Shopping for brand new toys for giving away to charity is a surefire way to invoke a sense of empathy and compassion in your children. Take them on trips to orphanages and charitable institutions and encourage them to give away some of their valuables to help them realize how sharing makes the world a better place and how contributions make a difference.
- Practice, Practice: Sharing is a skill just like anything else in life, and it stands true that it needs some practice. Get your child to interact with peers of his age and make friends. By building trust in his social circles, he’ll be more appreciative of sharing and be willing to show some of their things. There’s a huge difference in sharing with strangers and friends, and they’ll get that and appreciate it for what it is.
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