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Breast milk is one of the best sources of nutrition for babies. Breastfeeding not only provides nourishment to your baby, but it is also one of the best ways to bond with your little one. This pleasant and comforting experience may become a nightmare when your baby starts wailing during or after nursing sessions. In this article, we’ll tell you the causes of babies crying while nursing and also give solutions.
Causes of Crying During Breastfeeding
All these factors can make your baby fuss during feeding:
The Flow of Breast Milk:
Many babies cry while breastfeeding due to the flow of milk. If your baby coughs or gags after you begin breastfeeding, you may be having an over-reactive let-down. On the other hand, if immediately after you begin feeding, your baby pulls off, arches his back and kneads against your breast, this means you have a slower let-down. You may try breast compression to ease the flow.
Your Baby Needs to Pass Wind
The crying or fussing may also signal your baby’s urge to burp or pass gas. While shifting your baby from one breast to the other, gently rub his back. However, once your baby is four months or older, he may burp on his own. You can even change his nappy to expel the trapped gas.
He Feels Distracted
Babies who are three months or older easily get distracted by their environment. If your curious baby hears a loud noise, your efforts to get him back to the breast may irritate him.
He Is Teething
Some babies cry and fuss when they’re teething. As their gums become sore, sucking causes pain and discomfort.
Your Baby Is Stressed
If you’re worried and stressed, your baby may get stressed, too. This may lead to crying and fussing during feeding sessions.
Your Baby Has Learned Something New
Your baby is growing constantly, and sometimes these physical or emotional changes may intimidate your baby. He may not be able to decipher his newly acquired skill. This increases brain activity may hamper with his feeding schedule and pattern.
Your Baby Feels Tired
Sometimes, due to inadequate sleep, babies cry or fuss while feeding. However, babies feel more settled and start sticking to a routine after three months of age.
He Isn’t Hungry
If your baby isn’t hungry or has had his fill, he may refuse to feed. If this is the case, don’t force your baby, and try feeding him later.
He Has Thrush
Some babies may suffer from oral thrush. This is a painful condition where a baby has a cottage-cheese-like material inside his mouth and experiences pain while sucking.
Your Baby Prefers One Breast Over the Other
There are also babies who prefer feeding on a particular breast. If they’re shifted to the less preferred breast, they may start crying. Sometimes this may be due to some health problem, such as an ear infection or pain, that may lead to breast preference.
Your Baby Has a Tongue-Tie
Some babies are born with a tongue-tie, a condition where the lower part of the tongue is not fully detached. This condition hampers their ability to latch on to the breast properly. The shallow attachment may make their tongue slip and lose the grip on the breast. This can make babies irritable and cry during the feeding sessions.
Your Baby’s Nose is Blocked
If your baby’s nose is blocked due to a cold or an incorrect feeding posture, he may refuse to feed.
Your Baby Is Getting Too Much Milk
Some moms have an oversupply of breast milk, which makes them overfeed their infants. Overfeeding not only makes babies gassy and unsettled, but can also discourage them from feeding.
Your Baby Has Acid Reflux
Acid reflux is a condition wherein the food travels back up into the oesophagus from the stomach. The discomfort and pain that comes with reflux make them cry and fuss.
He Has Food Sensitivity
Food sensitivity is rare in exclusively breastfed infants. Nonetheless, if your baby develops food sensitivity, you may notice gas, tummy pain or discomfort. Ask your paediatrician if you need to stop consuming certain foods.
It May Be a Growth Spurt
When babies grow through growth spurts, they tend to become irritable and fussy. This may be the reason your baby cries during a nursing session.
Your Baby Smells Something Unusual
A new soap, perfume or lotion may have put your baby off from breastfeeding.
Your Breast Milk Tastes Different
The texture of your breast milk can change due to new foods, periods, or second pregnancy. This can trigger a breastfeeding strike.
If your baby is exhibiting fussy behaviour, it could be either of these problems or a combination of two or more. As your infant can’t speak yet; it’s upto you to assess the symptoms and figure out the cause.
Things You Can Do to Calm Your Newborn While Nursing
Here are some things you can try to calm your baby:
1. Take Him Outdoors
Take your baby out for a stroll in the park. It’s a good idea to feed your baby after an outing.
2. Nurse Your Baby When He’s Sleepy
Feed your baby when he’s drowsy. A sleepy baby is calm and collected, making breastfeeding easier.
3. Ask Your Spouse to Carry Your Baby
Babies are good at sensing emotions. If you’re feeling stressed out or depressed, ask your spouse/grandparent to calm the baby.
4. Refrain From Giving Formula
If your baby doesn’t take to the breast, express your milk and give it in a bottle. Refrain from giving formula milk if your breast milk is sufficient for your baby.
5. Don’t Compel Him
If your baby refuses to feed, leave him be. Forcing him to drink will only make him more crankier.
6. Try Nursing in a Dark Room
To prevent your baby from getting distracted by his surroundings, try feeding in a dark/dimly lit room.
7. Try Nursing While Bathing
Most babies enjoy bathing. You may get into a cosy bath with your baby and try feeding him.
8. Switch the Breast
If your baby is fussy about one breast, try offering the other one.
9. Try Different Feeding Positions
Sometimes, your baby may fuss or cry because he feels uncomfortable in a certain feeding position. Experiment with different feeding positions until you find a suitable one.
10. Squeeze Your Breasts
If your baby is upset with the slow flow of milk, squeeze or massage your breasts.
11. Burp Him
Burp the baby after a feeding session. This helps to release the trapped gas.
12. Play Soothing Music
Another way to calm and soothe your baby is to sing to him or play soft music.
13. Increase Skin-to-Skin Contact
Babies enjoy the proximity and skin-to-skin contact with their mothers. Cuddle, snuggle and hold your baby close while breastfeeding.
14. Pre-empt Your Baby’s Crankiness
If you know that your baby gets cranky at the same time every day, you may start a soothing ritual to help your baby feel comfortable and relaxed.
15. Keep Calm
If your baby fusses while feeding, keep calm and take deep breaths.
So, while it may be a little tedious to deal with crying babies while breastfeeding, the above tips go a long way in keeping things under control.