25 Questions to Ask at a Parent-Teacher Meeting

A mother meeting her son's teacher

It’s that time of the year folks! It’s time to go shopping with your kids for school supplies! It’s going to be a new academic year with new friends, teachers and many occasions to spend in your child’s school.

One of the occasions will be a Parent-Teacher meeting. It is a valuable effort to understand your child’s world. This meeting with your child’s teacher will help you understand and communicate with your child better and also help the teacher work with your child for a better educational and social outcome.

Tips to Prepare for a Parent-Teacher Meeting

A mother meeting her son's teacher

How to talk in a parent-teacher meeting can be very troublesome for some folks. Just be prepared to discuss the following with the teacher:

  • An overview of child’s work and his coping skills.
  • Your child’s conduct in class and with their social skills with peers.
  • Areas of improvement for your child and your involvement in making those changes.

To make the best use of this meeting and keeping the communication flow, and these parent meeting in school tip will help along the way

1. Schedule an Early Appointment

Make sure you take time out of schedule to meet with the teacher early and discuss your child

2. Speak to your Child about School

It’s important to know what your child think about their school. It helps gauge how they perform in school, their likes and dislikes and subject that may need more attention as they might find difficulties. It also helps you identify points that you can discuss with the teacher to help your child in their class. 

3. Assess your Child’s Report Cards

Studying your child’s report cards will help you get a clear understanding of their progress and areas of struggle. This understanding will help you discuss what the next course of action can be and how your child will benefit from attention to overcome the problem areas.

4. Review Assignments and Tests

Take a good look at the assignment and tests with the teacher’s comments to get an understanding of where your child may be lacking or exceeding in. You will get a holistic view of your child performance in class. Doing so will help you understand if the work is being completed. This can be then discussed with the teacher.

5. Note down the Questions to Discuss.

With every information that you’ve gathered on your child in school and their performance in class, make sure you have the questions you want to discuss with the teacher written down. Discuss each point with the teacher so that a plan can be made to better your child’s education and social experience in school.

25 Questions You Should Ask Your Child’s Teacher at Parent’s Teacher Conference

Interacting with your child’s teacher a couple of times in a semester is always suggested. This will aid in identifying and analyzing your child’s strengths and weaknesses, talk about issues at hand, and review your child’s overall growth. This is also an opportunity to create and build an easy flowing communication with your child’s teacher.

Utilising this opportunity to the maximum, here are 25 important parent meeting questions, broken up into three categories, to ask during a parent-teacher meeting.

By addressing these queries, you’ll get an improved understanding of how your child is doing at school and how their teacher plans on tackling any issues that they come across with your child.

General Questions

It has helped when parents grasp the school curriculum and understanding the teacher’s style of education. Here are some questions that can help:

  1. What areas of expertise are being worked on right now, and how are they incorporated into the school’s overall goals for the year?
  2. Is my child keeping up with the school’s curriculum?
  3. What can we do at home to maintain the expectations academically?
  4. How often you do you schedule tests? What impact do those grades have on my child’s academic future?
  5. What is the school’s approach towards homework? How are they reflecting on my child’s progress?
  6. What can we do to help you out and work together to help my child grow this year?
  7. What is your preferred teaching style? What methods can be implemented at home to be consistent with that of yours?
  8. How can we get in touch with you?

Question on How to Further Improve your Child Performance

While some folks approach parent-teacher conferences as a way to spot their child’s strengths and weaknesses, there are some who are not satisfied with the school curriculum and find it sub-par.

  1. What action can be taken if my child is not being challenged enough?
  2. Can you recommend some activities to support and polish my child’s learning?

Questions about How to Tackle Children Who are Under Performing Academically

There are ways parents, and teachers can engage to improve with your child if they’re struggling with schoolwork. Don’t shy away from asking hard questions, such as:

  1. What is the standard of studies at which our child should be performing?
  2. Can you discuss the areas in which my child is falling short?
  3. Which subjects are the most challenging for my child?
  4. Is my child facing difficulties on just tests or with schoolwork in general?
  5. Have you noted if my child is more responsive to a certain type of teaching? Can you suggest what we could do to improve the areas where my child is lacking?
  6. What support structure is given to help my child keep up with their classmates?
  7. How does the quality of my child’s work compare to his ability?
  8. How would you say my child manages their time?
  9. Are there any challenges you’re facing with teaching my child?
  10. How can we overcome those together?

Questions about your Child’s Social Standing

Parent-teacher meeting mustn’t be restricted to discussing the just academic performance of your child. School life can mould how your child will develop their social skills and how it affects your child learning. In this day and age, apart from just education, it is important to pay close attention to your child’s school life. Make sure take the time to ask:

  1. What is my child’s attitude like in the class?
  2. How is child’s academic performance vis-a-vis his peers?
  3. Does the teacher think that my child is having trouble socializing?
  4. What is the school’s policy on bullying? How do we tackle if such a situation is to come up?
  5. What can we do to help my child make friends and interact more productively?

Post the Conference

Discussing with your child on how the meeting with their teacher went will help ease their tension. Talk to them about what were the points discussed pertaining to their academics and how you will help them. Take some time from your schedule to create a plan to help with problem areas. It is important to communicate with your child to be able to help them out.

It’s necessary to be involved and concerned about your child’s school life, and the best way to do that is to have a great rapport with their teacher. A good parent-teacher meeting will be fruitful when all points are discussed, and a plan of action is put in place for execution!

Teachers are always looking forward to having a discussion with parents who have an interest and are concerned in their child’s progress at school. Your child’s performance is both yours and the teacher’s shared responsibility.

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